I am telling u the truth,some of my friends and relatives r jealous
of my beauty and always try to hurt me,sometimes they try to hurt me even in public.Example,they say beauty is just waste, like that things.Some times i offend but i am not able to offend them all the time because i know i have a beautiful heart too,they r hurting me coz they aren't as beautiful as me.Now tell me, what to do when they try to hurt me with their words?
2007-02-02 17:16:20 · 11 answers · asked by cherry 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
girl i got the same problem. im assumin most (if not all) of these jealous people are girls, because thats what it is for me. in my opinion, the #1 fix for avoidin the jealousy and drama of girls...stay away from em as much as u can. i cant stand girls (except for a select few but in general....no) they always seem to hate me or have somethin against me. i mean i still stay civil when i have to be around them (unless they piss me off) but i try to just stay away. i enjoy guys company SOO much better. theyre not NEARLY as complicated. plus theyve got no reason to be jealous of your looks ;)
2007-02-02 19:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you could say is if God didn't want me beautiful, He would have made me ugly. If they say something again like you mentioned, try that one and see what they say. I know how you feel, though. I'm not as nice as you, I usually come back with a bad remark. The ones I use are "hating me because I'm beautiful isn't a very good reason to hate me" or "Hey, just because I missed the beating with the ugly stick doesn't mean you have to have an attitude with me. Go take it up with your mama." I grew up being the nice girl, and I wasn't very pretty when I was younger. My junior year, I decided enough was enough and my attitude completely changed. I got tired of being nice to the people who were treating me like crap just to fit into their little clique. I started taking care of myself, exercising more, finding better things to do than sit in front of the TV, and started losing some weight. After I graduated, I lost more and that changed me. All the years of getting teased in school changed my perspective on people....if they can't be nice to you, then why try so hard to be nice to them? The golden rule is treat others the way you want them to treat you. If they don't respect you and just put you down, then why be nice to them?
2007-02-02 17:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jen G 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't there will always be jealous people, but beauty is kind of a waste. Eventually, intelligence matters more.
Try to talking to them about this. If it hurts you so much and they're your friends and such then they should know that that isn't okay with you.
2007-02-02 17:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Tranquilo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm not accusing you of something, yet first, be humble. in case you do certainly radiate attractiveness it inspires jealousy in others as they comprehend their actual shortcomings. on each occasion someone says something that cuts you and also you understand that is directed at you, purely enable them understand that you probably did not ask to be that way. it really is not your fault. or you ought to say something like "yeah, attractiveness fades, yet a delightful heart shines on" . "am not waiting to offend all of them the time because i understand I have a delightful heart too" once again, now to not offend, yet in case you do certainly have a delightful heart, enable it shine by skill of and doubtless they would not be so threatened. also that reality lend me to imagine you're a touch arrogent. if it really is the case, talk with the first sentence. it really is all solid to be solid searching, or a better effective ball participant, or better effective at something else than your piers, yet do not rub their face in it.
2016-12-03 09:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you run around saying you are beautifull and telling everyone there jealous because of that of course there gonna be mean, im not saying you do that but "IF" you do thats why. if you dont do that then your "friends" that do that arent really your friends. cause friends dont do that the ones that dont do that are your friends. just ignore it i know its hard but once you get out of school you will be out of all that ignorace imatuity (how ever you spell it ha ha) then you wont have to listen to all that cr*p anymore. good luck
2007-02-02 17:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Bri 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
People are always going to be jelous and a**holes. Embrace it and ignore. Easier said then done but life is too short.
2007-02-02 17:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by salsadancingtiffany 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
okay just ignore em...they are haters but really hun please post ur pic as an avatar or 360 account or something let the world see how pretty ur
2007-02-02 17:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥queen b♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yell, "stop picking on my looks, etc! u might think its funny but it hurts my feelings." tell them how u feel n they might stop.
2007-02-02 19:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by revengeofthemisfit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should find new friends
2007-02-02 17:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by Kulwant S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boo hoo!!
I'm too beautiful too!!
2007-02-02 17:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by 5324 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋