If someone hurts your feelings, and you are bound and determined not to let them know, what do you do?
2007-02-02 17:10:59 · 22 answers · asked by rosey 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Hi Rosey, I will just say nothing,and move out of the room. one thing i know,if someone is going to be that mean,i don't want anything to do with a person like that. Life is short,and i want to enjoy life without an A S S HOLE pulling me down. Move on,and be happy. A Friend
Clowmy
2007-02-02 17:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You realize that if you let someone hurt you then you are giving them power over you. It's important that we all maintain control of ourselves & not surrender to others. When we realize & accept this it will put their words into perspective. What they say may not even be how they really feel. A lot of people say hurtful things just because they KNOW they are hurtful. Those kinds of people are not your friends. Find some real ones.
2007-02-03 01:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are doing it on purpose cause some people like to hurt others to feel better about them selves... So if they act like that then just laugh it off and walk away. If they hurt your feelings by accident then you should be honest with them so they wont do it again. Whatever you do never hurt there feelings back cause then you'll be just like them and by not stooping to there level it makes you a better and more mature person.
2007-02-03 01:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by misskrissy85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when it comes to a guy I like, I simply, unattach myself from him, ignore him a bit, talk to other guys, he'll come around. Just like I'm doing now, and the guy is all over me again. I don't like to play games with love and dating, but if I see it's been started, I plan on finishing it.
Other than that scenario, I will talk to the person, I can't hold things in for too long.
Krazy Libra
2007-02-03 01:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre bound and determined.. then theres nothing that you should do...
2007-02-03 01:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, I tell the person in as diplomatic a way as possible. To make sure they understand...and make sure I didn't misunderstand. But some people that just don't get it, I let it go.
2007-02-03 01:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow them off for awhile. Either they'll get the hint or it will give you some time to calm down before you let them know.
2007-02-03 01:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid them without being suspicious looking
2007-02-03 01:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by LuLu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just withdraw from the situation and calm down.
2007-02-03 01:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by Zorlinda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i avoid them completely..find other things to do...and keep completely busy til they catch some snap or i have to drop them....recently had to reevaluate a friendship and he hurt my feelings pretty bad...so i had to decide finally put up with it or move on...and i moved on....
2007-02-03 01:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by michele m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋