I am telling u the truth,some of my friends and relatives r jealous
of my beauty and always try to hurt me,sometimes they try to hurt me even in public.Example,they say beauty is just waste, like that things.Some times i offend but i am not able to offend them all the time because i know i have a beautiful heart too,they r hurting me coz they aren't as beautiful as me.Now tell me, what to do when they try to hurt me with their words?
2007-02-02 17:06:55 · 10 answers · asked by cherry 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I get the same thing from my family! Friends too! My family always tries to hurt my feelings and break my self-esteem down by saying things like, youre so thin, what are you on drugs? And Im not. My cousins AND sisters boyfriends have hit on me in the past and they blame me, always saying that I wanted to sleep with them and I wasnt even sexually active, I was scared of it. Im not even like that, I have a fiancee and Im so happy with him and Im a good person, plus, I love my family, why would I want to do that to them, it is so hurtful, I mean their my family and they are more hurtful than anyone else in the world, and they are ALL like that. I like being a pretty person, but sometimes it honestly sucks. People really ARE meaner to you because of it. It shouldnt be my fault theyre self-conscience. The best thing I have found to do with my family is just to be attentive to what theyve been up to lately and compliment the things I like about them, like , Oh, your hair looks great, how did you fix it like that? That seems to take the focus off of you and onto them, plus it'll make them feel beautiful. If that doesnt work, and in my experience it doesnt always, I just keep my distance until they decide they want to act like adults and realize I'm family and not an enemy. Do that and I think they might realize they've hurt you.
2007-02-02 17:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by sarra_nicole 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm not accusing you of anything, but first, be humble. If you do indeed radiate beauty it evokes jealousy in others as they recognize their physical shortcomings.
Whenever someone says something that cuts you and you know it is directed at you, just let them know that you didn't ask to be that way. It's not your fault.
OR
you could say something like "yeah, beauty fades, but a beautiful heart shines on" . "am not able to offend them all the time because i know i have a beautiful heart too" Once again, not to offend, but if you do indeed have a beautiful heart, let it shine through and maybe they wouldn't be so threatened. Also that statement lend me to think you may be a little arrogent. If this is the case, refer to the first sentence. It's all good to be good looking, or a better ball player, or better at something else than your piers, but don't rub their face in it.
2007-02-03 01:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing you can do is show other people they have the power to hurt you..either they're really jealous, or they might be trying to hint that you are being arrogant about your looks...next time someone says something like that, ask youself, is this a reaction to something you just did? did you unwittingly, unintentionally say something hurtful? If not, ignore it, hopefully they will stop if they see its not making a difference to you.. :)
2007-02-03 01:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by bash_185 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just Ignore and dont care and continue to stay Beautiful by wearing good clothes , good makeup and taking care of your skin and following proper hygiene
2007-02-03 01:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Suvarna K 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just continue to be as beautiful on the inside as you are on th outside.
2007-02-03 01:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
beauty is in the eye of the beholder, i ain't sure 'bout this, but try to ignore/fight back.
here's advice from your neighborhood friendly Immortal ninja!
2007-02-03 01:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Immortal ninja 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just ignore them. its nature of few people to hurt others. so dont bother urself. if u take sterss your beauty may suffer.
2007-02-03 01:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you really like yourself don't you. Somehow I think they have a problem with your attitude, not you looks.
2007-02-03 01:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
just ignor them or don't go at them....
2007-02-03 08:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by Eve 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kill them with niceness....er....Josh......
HTH : )
2007-02-03 07:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋