He says its funny to him and he is just teasing but i have told him i dont find it funny and he continues to do this does anyone know why he might be doing it? He said earlier hes like yea i even have pics of you and your exs and he keeps accusing me of being with some guy i dont even know. I dont bring up his past relationships so im not sure why he is bringing up mine. Anyone have advice? Btw so everyone doesn't wonder i am 21 and he is 25
2007-02-02 17:00:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its sometimes hard for guys to accept and admit that their current partner had a love life before them. He's probably extremely jealous, w/ a mix of insecurity. Just tell him you don't want to talk about your past relationships w/ him, and ask why he would even want to know. I'm personally 25, and looking back when I was 21, the mindframes of just four years is actually really different. He knows your younger, and have less experience in dating others, which might make it easier for you to dump him and seek someone else.
2007-02-02 17:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by sorrowlaughed25 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats weird. Id ask him why he brings up exes. Tell him that you dont find it funny, and its uncomfortable. Tell him that you know hes just teasing, but you dont want to be reminded of the past. Next time he brings up the fact that he thinks you dated some guy you dont know, tell him that you dont know what hes talking about.
2007-02-02 18:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are really jealous about things like that.. especially if he thinks you are a really beautiful girl. he seems really insecure and is seeking reassurance. you need to really have a nice long talk about it.. before it is too late. (same type of thing happened to me.. although he did not tell me about it until it Was too late..) so you need to talk about your past relationships and make sure he knows they were your PAST. HE is your present. if he keeps doing it then maybe he is also feeling guilt because perhaps he is liking or seeing someone else.... so he wants to make you feel bad.. although he is really actually taking it out on himself by releasing that guilt you.. in which case you don't deserve either! good luck.
2007-02-02 17:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Essentially he is being a prick. Who gives a rat's backside about your past relationships? If he can't get over them and shut up about them, tell him he can join the list - and you won't keep photos of the two of you, either.
It doesn't really matter why he is doing it. You have told him you don't like it, but he's persisting. Make it perfectly clear that you dislike it, that you require him to stop doing it, and that if he can't value your happiness enough to stop doing something childish and annoying when he KNOWS you don't like it, then he'll join the list of exes.
What a prick, really.
2007-02-02 18:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can understand it is not funny to u,I think you can try giving him a dose of his own medicine, but I also thinks he wants to break, but doesnt have the guts to do so himself, so he thinks if he can irritate you enough, you'd kick him out, if that's the case I guess u better do it, asap, dont waste ur time or feelings on that idiot.
2007-02-02 17:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i dont like guys like that.i think that he wants u to care enough to say something.he juss wants attention.my advise is to tell him to stop or his out of the picture.he obviously likes u and wants u to be with him so juss tell him to stop.
2007-02-02 17:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by summer h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋