is doubt a damaging thing in a long distance relationship?? my mind keeps thinking too much and i keep thinking negatively about my girl.but it is very evident to me that she is jus the same one who loves me jus as she did always.i want to stop thinking negative n free my mind.what is the best way to do so?please advise
2007-02-02 16:28:22 · 9 answers · asked by tonal syndrome 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Doubt in and of itself is not a disease, however if doubt is the product of fear and insecurity it can certainly feel like one. If you are constantly thinking negative thoughts and it is damaging your relationship... you need to willing to confront what is it about for you. Ask yourself what is making you feel so insecure and fearful? Where is it coming from? When doubt creeps in, love often goes out to a degree because you operate from a place of fear. I like to think of fear as false evidence appearing real. You seem pretty convinced that you have no reason to doubt her, therefore, take a deep look into your own fears and insecurities that are operating right now and let them go. Good luck.
2007-02-02 16:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, doubt is not a disease, it is a cognitive and/or emotional response to facing a situation in which self-preservation is risked or there could be any negative outcomes. Doubt is part of the process of evaluating a situation and deciding which action should be taken depending on which action has the fewest negative outcome possibilities.
2007-02-03 13:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sweetie it is not a disease, but it is definately a mood killer and will eventually kill your relationship. You need to decide why you have so many negative feelings about everything. You could be suffering from depression which is of course a disease and is treatable. Perhaps you so go an see a counselor and discuss this and see what they have to offer to you. I hope everything works out for you and your girlfriend. Everyone deserves happiness and good health!!!
2007-02-03 00:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy Roo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself think positive happy thoughts!!!!
Avoid yeast as it can make negativity, plus lots of other problems.
Eat fresh & healthy as we are what we eat and absorb.
If you do a yeast detox, (Golden Seal & Pau d Arco formula)
A parasite detox, (Olive Leaf)
pH balance your body with salads and barley grass.
Avoid any chemical product including bleach & chlorine (use herbal shampoos etc)
Dont get burnt but Get lots of purely energising sunshine and do fun stuff together with your girl or maybe get married !!!
But never have children while in a negative state of mind, as it could produce a sad negative child.
You could think of adopting, the world is full of sad homeless kids.
2007-02-03 00:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by luvblis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doubting someone is damaging. it can break even the greatest of relationship. if your girl loves you the same way as she always did, don't doubt. be happy and proud! the best way to stop thinking negatively? put yourself in her place. how would you feel if she starts doubting your feelings? have faith if you really love her.
2007-02-03 00:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by jadela 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not doubt, but suspicion
doubt is the natural feelingof questioning, suspicion is the baseless feeling that something is wrong
2007-02-03 04:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by sushobhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, doubt is not a disease. It is a symptom. "It is hesitation that kills us." Hesitation is the disease, my friend. Don't delay, do it today!
2007-02-03 00:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by WMD 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes depend on ur thought.
2007-02-03 00:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by raji t 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋