My name is Ren Brown, my other sn is brownl5169. I havent used it in forever because ive switched. :] I guess I should start this out with explaining a bit about my life. My father is currently the ceo of a southern division company. His name is Michael Allen Brown. I am 15 years old, a girl, and I run websites and own an exotic animal program for my career. I am very thankful for my blessings, but I cant help but feel guilty for no reasons sometimes, sometimes I think Im a little bit spoiled. I work for everything I have, but I still feel very fortunate. Anyways, theres this girl at my school. Shes a senior and I met her today. Shes an amazing person, but has a really bad rough past. I want to help her in someway, nothing to do w/ her past, but im afraid if i do something super nice shell think its charity or something. Right now the only thing i can think of is being a good friend, and thats pretty lame. Any ideas? I feel so guilty right now I feel like crying. I feel like a bad per.
2007-02-02 16:24:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I feel like a bad person.
P.s-im ALMOST 16. And im not trying to brag about anything, im just trying to explain perhaps why i feel guilt. I try hard to give back in life but i never feel as if i do enough. :/
2007-02-02 16:26:05 · update #1
This is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen in here. You have given me something, too. Get to know this girl and see what she is lacking. Leave anonymous gifts for her. Never tell her. You will feel amazing... and thank you for reaffirming my faith in humanity.
2007-02-02 16:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a great person and always need to remember that.....
there is no guilt in doing honest work for what you get.... that you do... Being her friend is the most valuable gift anyone can give.... Time will let you know how you can help in other ways... do it anonymously and then she will not be able to feel like charity....
2007-02-02 16:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with Sweetie here - PLEASE don't give out so much personal info! Your heart is in the right place, wanting to help a friend, but you can't help her if you end up being stalked (or worse). As for your question, you might be shocked to learn just how much being a friend, listening, and being available to a friend who might take a chance and reach out to you, can be INVALUABLE to someone. Don't push, just be willing to listen. If this friend's past is as bad as you say, she likely won't trust easily. Step outside of your own guilt and inner chatter, and trust that you'll instinctively find the right thing to do. Hope I could help.
2007-02-02 16:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by OneRedCent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just be her friend, that is in no way lame. Just being there for a person can make them feel better about themselves. Talk to her, hang out with her, just be her friend.
2007-02-02 16:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by daysy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend, openeing up to someone hepls you. you should try talking to her, find some similateries help her out. she wont think that you being nice to her will be charity there is no reason that being nice to someone means you feel bad for her/him i think you should just listen and give her your trust.
2007-02-02 16:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy_of_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 20:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by forgach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you kids keep posting your darn names on the internet, knock it off.
2007-02-02 16:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋