Please help I am a 29 yr old woman and I am in a dead in realationship. He is a good guy at times but he lies so much I don't ever know if he is telling the truth or not. But the love for him is gone! but I don't know if finical I can make it with out him! What should I do? Help me !!
2007-02-02 16:12:01 · 14 answers · asked by bridgett678 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never invest more than 2 - 3 yrs. in a relationship without marriage.
Never have kids out of wedlock..
Never marry anyone who has problems...Problems get worse after
marriage...
Time for you to start saving some money and figuring out how
you are going to live on your own for a while...
As soon as you can afford to do so....
Break it off and move on...
2007-02-02 16:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would rather work a second job than stay in a relationship where I honestly didn't love the person. Loveless marriages become really toxic over time, b/c the very basis of marriage, love, is not there to sustain through the bad times where everything else has gone to the crap heap. Without love (and trust) you don't have a marriage.
2007-02-03 00:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by kmlloveplant 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have a job yourself?
Or, Do you have a degree ?
Get your self a job and go to an evening school to secure your future.
Living with a lier is very risky.
He may leave you without telling you. Then you will breakdown.
have a plan A for your life and think of plan B.
Take control of your life, either he is there or not.
The only one who can protect you, is you.
2007-02-03 00:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be a wimp. Go on with your life and let me tell you it is going to get worse before it gets better but in two years from now you can look back and be happy you left or you can ask your self why am i still here so unhappy? what am I doing? in twenty years you may ask your self that again why am i still here so unhappy? what am I doing? But then it may be to late for change. You are stronger then you think. Find It in your self.
2007-02-03 00:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get 2 jobs while you are still there and save the extra money, work smarter not harder. Or move with family or friends for awile. Either way, leave him alone its not fair to either one of you to stay in a relationship like that.
2007-02-03 00:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just get out and don't worry about finances--they tend to be okay as long as you working. I dated a compulsive liar and they will never change--you will make it--everyone does. Just worry about your emotional health--don't get into the spiral of depression or being dependant on another--you just need to cut ties and move on. Things always work out if you make the right choices.
2007-02-03 00:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you a nut? You don't stay in a "dead end" relationship for money. What are you some kind of trick. You pay off your bills, cut your expenses and end it. Get a skill, go to college to increase your earning ability.
2007-02-03 00:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by kyle g 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seek counseling and help for you and the marriage first.. Try sticking it out for now but if after all this it still does not get better then leave.
2007-02-03 00:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are are not happy then you need to let him know this, it
about trust and know that the person that you love is everything
that you want in a realtionship, it sound like you can not trus
him and if that the case then you need to leave it along. it not
going to get any better unless you deal with how you feel.
2007-02-03 00:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't trust the answers you get here for such an important decisions. Don't you have some friends you can confide in who's opinion you trust?
2007-02-03 00:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by SurfDog 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋