Just now, my bff Allana came over and we went on her aim account and began IM'ing my ex. She told him I wasnt here so he said,"Oh, well, no one likes her, she dresses really weird and shops at weird places!" I was reading it and was like thinking,"EXCUSE me?!?!?!?!? I shop where my bff's shop and he thinks my other friends are still cool?" Then Allana said,"Ok, then why arent I more annoying then her, we're EXACTLY alike!" Then he typed back,"Oh, well you're just cooler than her."
I was sooooo hurt! It turns out, everyone else at school thinks the same thing! (I dont know that as a fact). I have enough problems as it is, so how do I deal with this one?
2007-02-02 15:37:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ignore em n dress crazier
its better to be like i dont care what they think then to be like oh my goodness people think im weird oh no i better change absolutely everything about myself, itll make em feel as if their important.
2007-02-02 15:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, everyone at school does NOT think this. Your ex was being deliberately hurtful because he knew your friend would tell you exactly what he said (and you know she would. If you hadn't really been there, she'd have told you about it later). He's just trying to save face, to act as though your breakup was no big deal to him. If the things he said were at all true, why would he have gone out with you in the first place? Don't play his game. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing it bothered you. Instead, pretend you never heard it and start giving him the brush off ("I'll talk to you later, okay? I'm kind of busy now" ). Nothing will get him back more than seeing that you don't care what he does, thinks, or says.
2007-02-02 15:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truly flow to college tomorrow and carry your head up proudly! first ingredient interior the morning flow for your education counselors place of work and tell them whats happening. little ones pick to make up rumors about different little ones because... a million. they're bullies and are extremely insecure less than their demanding facade. 2. they prefer the interest they get from spreading outrageous thoughts. 3. they ought to make you experience undesirable because someway perhaps you damage them or they're jealous of you. it truly is definitely an noticeably intense count and also you should take it to the authorities at your college and keep in recommendations you'd be out of there in some short years and is totally not seeing those human beings again.
2016-11-24 20:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow it just seems like your ex dslikes u al ot. lol DId u break up with him?? Did u cheat on him?? This may be why he isnt fond of u. Well I dont believe everyone at school thinks this at all but I do think your ex spreads rumors and talks about u. Well just ignore him and dont worry about it. Hes just childish and immature. Just let it go because u must be real important if he feels the need to talk junk about u.
2007-02-02 15:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by deanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This thing has happened to me...pretty similar. But, listen this rumor might seem like a huge thing to you right now but belive me it really is not when you graduate these girls are not going to matter to you. The rumor will go around and eventually stop, then she'll move on to somebody else, she is just a mean girl and you'll get plenty of those so just ignore it.
2007-02-02 15:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off dump your so called boyfriend. Then just keep being yourself. Kids your age judge each other harshly without really thinking and they will change their minds on a whim so I wouldnt worry about what they think. But your own boyfriend shouldnt have said what he did or go along with stupid rumors.
2007-02-02 15:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are starving kids all over the world and you`re worried that your ex thinks you`re weird. Your life must be so tough. I think you should worry about things that actually matter, not what some little pimple faced punk thinks!
2007-02-02 15:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by Scott T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he probably knew you were there and was saying hurtful things to get to you. don't buy into his crap! kids can be so mean - don't believe everything you hear. Often the people talking are just jealous - my daughters had the same problems in school. Hold your head high sweetie and good luck!
2007-02-02 15:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by ILOVELUCYFAN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, the people you go to school with are incredibly shallow. Don't play into their game. Don't let them know it bothers you, because they'll do it more. Who CARES where you shop and how you dress??????? They need to chill out and deal!
2007-02-02 15:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If people are talking about you than at least they are thinking of you. Most rumours are started and spread because of others insecurities and jealousy. Just be real with yourself and don't fuel the fire.
2007-02-02 15:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by Melron p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋