one day i hade a friend over and i invited her and she wasnt talking to me i had a other friend over and they were haunging out together and they left me out and i want to know if i should be frends with her still?
2007-02-02 15:35:52 · 6 answers · asked by shawna s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What a cuinsidence I basically went through the same thing. Because I went to my bestfriends house to sleepover and suddenly she got a phone call from another friend and they invited her some where and she left me alone at her house so she could go with another friend. Now I dont talk to her and avoid her. But in your position I believe you should tell her how you feel and let her know that isn't right, if she doesn't listen ignore her from there on and don't talk to her. Because she isn't trully your friend. Make new friends who dont just think about themselves. Goodluck! =)
2007-02-02 15:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're saying.
I've experienced that recently and it really bothered me.
After some thought I decided that if my friend really wanted me to be her friend then she'd BE a friend and not ditch me like that. She'd treat me with a little bit more respect and not walk all over me. I knew that if I wanted things to get better then I'd better hang out with other people.
That's exactly what I did. I met people who treated me better and before I knew it, I forgot all about the anger and disappointment I felt when I was left out. I was having a great time with my new friends that I forgot the old one.
Sometimes we just gotta learn how to move on and brush people like that off. It's not always easy but it's worth it because you are a valuable person and deserve people who value your friendship. :)
All the best!!!
2007-02-02 23:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes your friends ignore u because they can get a little tired of u!I know it sounds ridicloues,But it is true!Just give her a little time to think about it so stay away from her for a day or two and if that doesnt work talk to her personally about it make sure no one is there because they can gossip.
Hope that helped!!
---- Maggie
2007-02-03 00:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by maggie_fitzgerald18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her about the problem and tell her how you feel - being the third wheel blows, i've been there twice. get yourself involved with them, be the funny person, and make an *** out of yourself. nothing wrong with that.
2007-02-03 00:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me about it i hate it when that happen.any way they do that because they think you're not popular , you don't listen to what they're saying,you don't spend more time with them maybe hanging with your boy friend too much or they just don't want to be friends any more
2007-02-02 23:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by accpcted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a child's playground to me. if you are mature you learn to share, and not get upset if they talk to someone
2007-02-02 23:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋