weird dreams?

Question

Ok for few months early last yr i thought i had some reasons to think hubby had cheated but it was all a mistake and he never did..Well anyways i had 4 or 5 dreams that he did.1 dream he ask another woman out and in the dream i ask him why and he said he was attracted to her and the woman was in the dream and she ask me who i was and i said im his wife thats who and she walked away..in these few dreams the woman had dark hair...what do these dreams mean and why did i dream them

Answer 1

check out "cheating in dreams' at

Answer 2

Seems you got all "psycho" on your husband's cheating and he did not. This is constantly on your mind. You may feel that you are inferior and that your husband does not really love you or even that he is seeing someone else because what husband wouldn't having an inferior wife.

So when you dream, you dream of things that happen during the day or things that have been on your mind. Did you know if you are dreaming and a firetruck goes by with the siren, you may incorporate the siren in your dream. This does not mean you will have a premonition of a fire either. You were asleep and do not remember the siren.

Buy a notebook and pen and lay it by your bedside. In the AM, when you wake up, write down what you dreamed immediately. People do not realize that from 10 minutes to the end of the day, they will not have an inkling of what they dreamed. So some people do not think they dream. They can not remember. That is why you write it down so you will not forget. Then once you have done this, see how much of the dream was in reference to your life in the last few days. Did you watch Top Gun and now you had a dream of flying or shooting someone. Dreams all relate to what you think of, sometimes whether you know it or not.

Answer 3

I had the same thing happen to me.

I thought it was a mistake, that I had misjudged. I then dreamed exactly what this woman looked like in the dream.

Turns out, he did cheat (for almost 4 years) with this woman. I talked to her ex-husband and he described what I saw in my dream to a tee.

I truly believe that it was an angel giving me a message I desperately needed to know.

We are now divorced and I thank God that I found out when I did.

I had all kinds of signals--which I ignored for 4 years because I trusted and loved him so much. You can't be in a marriage if you don't trust and I am simply not a suspicious person. But the dream made me start digging and looking at things I should have seen all along.

Best of luck and if it is true, trust me, it's not the worst thing that can happen. The worst thing is that you would go on giving someone your trust and love who doesn't deserve it (and who would put you at risk for whatever disease).

Answer 4

Dreams don't really mean a lot. Dreams actually tell yourself how you feel. In other words, I think your having these dreams because your worried that he's cheating on you and it's stressing you out. The more you think about it in the day, when your awake, the more and more you dream about it. try to trust "hubby" and your dreams will go away. But if you think he's cheating maybe the trust isn't there.

Answer 5

Stop asking him if he is Cheating on you ! Most often these dreams have other meanings Like to dream of a terrible storm means changes are coming . Look up dream interpations or go to a book store and find a book on dreams you will be very surprised that they are not always what they seem.. Don't let this ruin your relationship.

Answer 6

Actually dreams are not predications they are your hopes and fears. You are afarid you are going to loose him, and this is how your dreams present this.
They have no foundations in fact..its what you are afraid of. Its normal..you have found someone you really love. He probably is going anywhere and you know that, but you think that something will burst this bubble. Give it time.
Trust me..every night I dreamt my husband was breaking up with me..I used to be so upset in the mornings as they were so real.

But they reconfirmed how much he menat to me...so now I feel more secure, knowing I am lucky enough to have found someone I am truly happy with.

Answer 7

Dreams are generally your conscience brain trying to make sense out of what the subconscience mind does when you are sleeping. Its typical for your mind to try to attribute it to stressful things you have been dealing with lately.

In short, don't worry about it: you're mind was just telling you that you were stressed out about the possible cheating (who wouldn't be?)

Answer 8

you are secretly wanting to cheat on you husband with a dark haired person. Could it be the girl in your dream? I don't know. Well cya later

Answer 9

You dream about it because it is a fear of yours that he is or will cheat on you. You said it yourself that at one time you thought he was having an affair

Answer 10

have faith in ur husband . dreams mean nothing they just reflect your mind. you'r feeling insecure t hat your husband will ditch you for another woman. this is natural many women fear this. this is just like many odd fears we have . trust ur husband and don't fight with him unnecessarily. love him cook tasty meals, do what he exepects from you. it is just like woman have many expectations from their husband. honestly think are u up to his expectations. if not try to be. he will never leave you,not even in his dreams. don't be scared of ur dreams. they are your dreams not his! so don't worry. there is no dark haired woman to snatch awayyour hubby!