ok here gose. my fridn who is 17 is 5 weeks pregnant
she has this boyfriend of hers that got her like that. she told me that he agressivly got her and put her in a wall and started screaming at her in the mall, in front of everyone. he screams at her alot and she dosent break up with him, and i dont get it. sooner or later hes ganna abuse her, and the ididot wont let him go...
im telling to break up with him, i was right about all the things i told her to do before, but she learned the hard way. please tell me if she should break up with him, if she dose she will nurse the baby by her self, but better then haveing a bad father like him.
2007-02-02 15:32:11 · 6 answers · asked by Im This Guy... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
'Sounds as if your friend has a horrible boyfriend. You don't yell at a girl constantly and you sure as heck do NOT pin her against the wall and treat her like dirt. That's wrong and that guy needs to learn some respect before he tries to date.
My advice is to keep encouraging your friend to drop him. Tell her that she's already pregnant and if she doesn't get out of that relationship NOW then things will only get worse. Tell her she doesn't deserve to get treated like that and she needs to do this for her and for her kid.
You are right too: She will have to be a single mom but it is better than being with a father like that guy.
You can't force your friend to do stuff-this is a decision she must make on her own. Just keep encouraging her to do what is best and to hang in there. She will make it through.
Good luck!!!!
2007-02-02 15:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, it's not that easy to just "break up" with the guy who's the father of your baby. i mean do you know how many things she'd have to do on her own? but i agree totally..that the guy is a d!ck and should go eat his hair in a corner, but maybe she just likes knowing that he's at least THERE..no matter what he's doing. just having that security (how ironic) probably helps her out. just tell her that YOU'LL be there for her..no matter what happens. that you'll even help PAY for whatever she needs. she just wants some security. so go ahead and GIVE some to her. :] good luck.
2007-02-02 23:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a huge jackass. Maybe she's with him because she loves him. But if I were her I wouldve already dumped him. Let her know the abuse isnt going to get her anywhere. What if once she has the baby, he treats it the same way. Encourage her to dump him right away, he isnt worth it! Goodluck =)
2007-02-02 23:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure raising a child is hard, but it is even harder when you have a boyfriend abusing you. Sure the baby won't have a father around but at least it wouldn't be seeing his/her mom being tortured. If she still loves him, then tell her to talk to him but have you come along so if he does anything to her you could just kick his ***.
2007-02-02 23:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by julietary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if i were you i would like act like the dad, so that can make your friend feel better some how, and about that guy..omg tell someone like get your friend to like somehow break up with him, and watch out. about the poor baby, or even call the cops for the hek of it. hope this somehow helped.
2007-02-02 23:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by ▌«♥dσσdette♥«▐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes ALREADY abusing her! just because he hasnt broke her nose doesnt mean its not abuse to yell and intimidate her...
2007-02-02 23:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋