Okay so here it is. I am only 14 going on 15. I dont wANT TO LEAVE MY MOM AND DAD but I might not have a choice even though I do. ok so My gpa threatened to kick me out because of the simple fact I yelled back at him.It all started because of he thinks i was lieing about not wiping the counters.I dunno And they hate me and ignore me all the time. they are threatiening to kick me ou. I've been getting sick and etc. I havent eatin that much in three days. everything in the world is going wrong. Help. I think i just need to go live with my friend allie for a year( wait to this school year is over and then start next year) . Maybe it will help? But then i'll only be able to get about $20 a month for support so i guess i should start now. It's either this runaway or commit suicide. idk. help shoud i go awqay for a little while.
2007-02-02 15:18:57 · 11 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay so here it is. I am only 14 going on 15. I dont wANT TO LEAVE MY MOM AND DAD but I might not have a choice even though I do. ok so My gpa threatened to kick me out because of the simple fact I yelled back at him.It all started because of he thinks i was lieing about not wiping the counters.I dunno And they hate me and ignore me all the time. they are threatiening to kick me ou. I've been getting sick and etc. I havent eatin that much in three days. everything in the world is going wrong. Help. I think i just need to go live with my friend allie for a year( wait to this school year is over and then start next year) . Maybe it will help? But then i'll only be able to get about $20 a month for support so i guess i should start now. It's either this runaway or commit suicide. idk. help shoud i go awqay for a little while. ok but i know this but my mom thinks i should and allies family will support me i will not move out completely i'll come back i just need to get away.
2007-02-02 15:35:52 · update #1
Ok. anytime I do right in this house I still get yelled at for something even if it was right. I make honor roll and evrything.I try to be mature about things but everytime I try to be they just gnore me anyway gosh. lord help me help my stupid self. qwhat can I do?
2007-02-02 15:43:22 · update #2
Have U Talked 2 Them About Living W/ Ur Friend? Talk 2 Them About It & See If They Agree. U Sound Like Ur Not A Trouble In The House So I Don't See Their Problem W/ U But Whatever. Just Be Really Nice 2 Everyone In The House & They May Cut U Some Slack. Anyways I Think Living W/ Ur Friend Sounds Like A Really Good Idea. Good Luck & God Bless.
2007-02-02 19:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay at home. That's the first thing. Speaking as an older person myself, let me clue you in on a few things. Parents and grandparents can be cranky! And it can have very little to do with you. We have so many stresses in our lives and just get tired. So if you get in a fight with your family, its normal. And it may not even be your fault.
At 14 or 15 you are living some of the hardest years of your life--life really does get better if you stay on track. Try to get good grades, try to be nice to your family (even though I know it can be difficutl), don't get involved with any loser boyfriends, and before you know it, you'll be driving and have a job, have a little money of your own, and one day, your life will suddenly feel better.
In spite of all the crap, your family loves you deeply. You should talk to the one adult fam member you get along best with, and tell them it really scares you and hurts your feelings when they talk about kicking you out. And tell them you are going to try be be easier to get along with, too--part of this problem is yours.
If you threaten to commit suicide or run away, (both extremely stupid and immature ideas, BTW) they will think you're being overly dramatic and maybe not take you seriously. Try to talk to them maturely. When things get bad, talk with your friends and vent your frustrations--that's what they're there for. And when they have touble with thier families, listen and support them in return.
I know its hard, but it really does get better. Really! Stay strong and good luck
2007-02-02 23:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by preciselyright 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are being emotionally and verbally abused, yes, leave.
If you don't want to leave because you love your parents, then have a talk with them. Avoid your gpa.
Understand that you are going through hormonal changes right now and things feel alot worse than they sometimes are. You need some balance in your life to offset the stress you are feeling.
Get plenty of rest, exercise and proper nutrition.
2007-02-02 23:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your hormones are kicking in and that is why you are all confused. A general rule in life is "Don't move out of home and away from Mum and Dad until at least you can spell propper". Just give yourself a rest, take some deep breaths and try and work it out until the next day.
2007-02-02 23:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Nosher 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too young to leave home. You need to talk to your Mom and Dad and explain the situation to them. Maybe they will understand and you all can work things out. As for gpa, you should not yell at him because he is older and you should show respect. If you can't talk to your parents, call someone at a church and talk to them. Prayer is the answers to your problems. Put your faith in God because he will never let you down. You may feel like it sometimes, but live right and good things will come to you. I will keep you in my prayers.
2007-02-02 23:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dyan 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to a school counselor or a friend's mom and explain this. Running away won't solve your problems, only create more. Suicide is never the answer (think of this... you cant change your mind). Talk to someone (an adult, preferably) and listen. Sometimes what is best is not what is the easiest. good luck
2007-02-02 23:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are 14. It is not time to grow up yet and it sure is not time for you to consider moving out. You will get told what to do all of your life. Get used to it. You can't run away from rules and responsibilities.
Do as you are told.
Chances are they do not hate you. They might dislike your actions and the way you respond when they talk with you.
Growing up is hard to do but it will be the easiest time in your life.
2007-02-02 23:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Larry L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, don't do anything to hurt yourself. No matter how bad things are, you have to know that things will get better. Find sombody who you can trust and confide in, maybe a counselor at school or a friend's parent. Don't run away or anything like that... how will you take care of yourself? Just hang in there. We all have hard times, but one thing I know for sure is that it does get better!!
2007-02-02 23:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sommer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You live with your parents AND your grandparents? Why won't your parents stick up for you? If it's an abusive situation, call Child Protective Services. Your school counselor can give you their number.
2007-02-02 23:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by littlechrismary 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you got some good answers here so far ....... I would say just play it cool .... take it easy and try to enjoy your youth ...... your grandparents never have a day where they feel good, so that makes them grouchy ...... no one that age ever feels really good (their body) ... You have to remember that, ok?
anyways ..... just do good ..... keep it cool .... and in just 4 summer vacations from now you will be 18 ..... !! wow!! (^-^) It is not that long if you think of it like that ...... (^-^)
don't know if this helps or not ... but hope so ....
2007-02-03 00:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋