A couple monthst ago I stopped hanging out with my 2 closest friends. I am constantly being reminded of the lost. I want to say I regret it but I dont. My ex bf started dating my closest guy friend. I was already feeling left out since he was hiding it from me. But i just got back from dinner with my family and once i walked out of the resturant I saw my friends at subway with my ex friends. I didnt think they saw me so I just kept walking.....Now one of my other friends that is there is texting me and asking me what i am doing and telling me that he is at subway. everyone was there.... How do I try to make new friends and potentially a best friend if I never get invited to do stuff? And how the hell am I supposed to forget the past and move on if I cant get away from them?
2007-02-02 15:14:58 · 2 answers · asked by Kendall 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Rule number one: Do your own thing. You know, what makes you happy, not others. It's really easy; all you have to do is think about something you would like to do on your own, outside of your normal routine. Not only will you feel more confident about yourself, but you might meet someone who might enjoy the same things you do.
Rule number two: Friends come and go. It's a fact of life, so you might as well get used to the idea. Some are worth keeping around; others aren't, and the ones you just mentioned seem like the latter kind. So, as I said, do your own thing. It's much more pleasant, and you'll find yourself wondering what you did with those others in the first place. Trust me on this; I've learned from experience. Okay?
2007-02-02 15:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
To get a best friend is hard. I takes time. And you have to learn about that person. As for forgetting your old friends just ignore them.
2007-02-02 15:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Damien 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋