Two of my best friends haven't been in any of my classes since seventh grade. We did have lunch together in eighth though.. Now in ninth, I only have lunch with one of them, who rarely hangs around me at lunch.
They never tell me anything.
Nothing.
I feel so.. unwanted. Like, I just figured out that best friend number one's ex boyfriend asked out best friend number two. Wow. They never even told me that entire year of eighth grade. Also, best friend number two will never tell me who she likes. I don't have a big life. I have never spilled a secret EVER. I tell them everything, why don't they trust me?
Even though we have no classes together, we see eachother a lot. We hang out in the time before homeroom, we walk to classes together when we can, we see eachother before we board the school bus.
Also, we keep a notebook. Like a diary for each of us that we pass around. Why do they hide things from me? What can I do? Am I over-reacting? They're making me sad.
2007-02-02 15:10:49 · 9 answers · asked by whaddaphreak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just so you know, they're my best friends for a reason. I can't just "find new friends". But thank you for your suggestions on that matter..
2007-02-03 07:37:04 · update #1
i know exactly how you feel, my wife used to hide things from me too. especially my beers
2007-02-02 15:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Double J - Jonni Jigolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, guess what? I have the same problem, but it's with more of my friends. I feel so left out sometimes, but you know what I do? I ignore it for a while. Usually, the type of friends I have are the types who like it when you don't constantly ask them about their problems. Your friends just might be the same... But, remember this, always be there to help them.
2007-02-02 15:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Katiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl of a small friends shop group (fakes names) our names are mya,Kayla,emily and Leah. Kayla and Emily are always running away in school and it's really annoying. it's the weekend today ( school tomorrow) and Emily FaceTimes me all excited saying she gonna tell me something tomorrow. So I'm there like guessing what it is. She keeps saying I'm gonna tell you tomorrow and then say it's bad for u and Leah. So I say it's ok for Kayla then and she says yes. And say I will tell you tomorrow. So she ends the call. I text Kayla and ask what it is she says I will tell you tomorrow. So I'm still waiting what it is.
2016-09-18 07:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One: They probably didn't want you to know about #1's boyfriend asking out #2 because it's really embarrassing, if you think about it. Two: You don't have to tell them everything, some secrets are worth keeping to yourself. Three: Don't worry about it, girl, you're growing up. You'll learn more about this over time. Patience, kid, you're doing just fine. Just don't let things get to you; you have your own life to lead, so do just that: Lead it, you know?
2007-02-02 15:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be better off finding yourself some new friends if that's how you feel about them. I'm sure there are girls in your own class that would give anything to have a good friend like you.
2007-02-02 15:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like yourself. Ignore them and they may talk t you but if they dnt then find new friends... Just being blunt sorry!
2007-02-02 15:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them and tell them how you feel.
if they really are your best friends, they should want to change some things if they are making you sad.
2007-02-02 15:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends.
2007-02-02 15:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the're not ur friends if they do that to u
2007-02-02 15:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋