in the world with divorce and broken homes and families
can we love again? and how many times?
2007-02-02 15:04:51 · 18 answers · asked by kickazz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes, we weren't in love the first time, in the first place!!
2007-02-02 15:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by chevy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there could be more than one "true love". Just because you part ways with a person you once loved, it doesn't automatically invalidate what you had shared with them in the past. I am divorced, but in the past my former spouse and I *did* truly love each other, there is no doubt in my mind about that. I am now married again, and I truly love my husband - regardless of what the future might bring. My love will not be invlaidated if for some reason we grow apart 10-20 years from now, and say good bye to each other. If it does happen, you better be sure that I will be out looking for love again.
2007-02-02 23:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is more than one soul mate.. if u keep a good attitude you can love again but if you keep picking the wrong person a pattern and get hurt again and again then you may not want to love again.. soooo do it right the 1st time take it slow get to know and know your goals and standards of what you will except instead of the lust thing going fast and.. the forever syndrome .. a heart can only break so many times.. love is something you grow into after yrs.. in time not overnight and fall into .. its nothing to fall in about.. if u don't know the person perhaps people get smitten and lust land eyes.. all relation ships are that way in beginning.. grow slow.. yes u can love again if u keep as i said a good attitude and have these guidelines.
2007-02-02 23:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading the responses here I guess I am the odd man out. I believe you have one true soul mate in life. I believe we are destined to love, truly love, one person. Sometimes it may take us time to find this person. I am recently divorced, I thought my ex was my soul mate, but I guess I was wrong. I never thought he would cheat on me and leave me for the other woman. But that is what happened. So, either I was wrong and I will find the love of my life or I was right and we both made the biggest mistake of our lives. I guess time will tell.
2007-02-02 23:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 46 and have loved deeply twice. The love that I married ended tragically in his death by suicide. I must admit that I'm afraid now to love again, afraid to trust my life to that kind of vulnerability. I think I'll leave that to the young ones and settle for good friendships. I suppose that some amazing man could come along and change my mind but I'm so closed to the possibility at this point that I would probably miss it.
So, yeah, I'm sure it's possible, just not desirable in my case.
2007-02-02 23:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we can have more then one true love..I believe that..
I know I have loved before, and I know with all my heart that my past men have loved me..Im sure they still do, I dont think we ever really lose our love that we have shared with someone...either way...Its there...But love doesnt mean that 2 people can live together..ya know?
Im on my 3rd marriage, and I love this man with all my heart and soul...Now Im content and happy..it took a while to get here, to this point in my life, but now that im here, I feel He is my soulmate...
Although, I have loved before....
Does this make sense?
You will be able to love again...I promise...it takes time...we dont have to stop loving others..but when our one true true love comes along..it will minimize the feeling of the other loves..
Hope this helps some..
2007-02-02 23:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by ~Annette~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question. Loving is sharing and consequently one can share different times and experiences with different people. This is however different from living with all of them at the same time. The hard part in the world is getting the people you live with full time to understand that there were other moments you held dear and one situation does not preclude the other.
2007-02-02 23:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Nosher 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can truly love more than once in your life. There is no magical limit. Some never find love and then again some are lucky enough to find it over and over. I'm 40's and can say that i've truly been in love 3 times in my life.
2007-02-02 23:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by dave w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i read all the answers and I have to agree with them all. Once u fall in love, U can again. There are many different kinds of love. i can love again... I love my hubby of 10 years, he is my best friend. and as many times as your heart will allow.
2007-02-02 23:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can love again and I don't know how many times. I'm only 30. I'll tell you in 30 years.
2007-02-02 23:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not constant. Love is not eternal. As proven time and time again, love changes.
Accept the truth about love and love will have more meaning when it comes in your life.
How many times can you love?
As many times as it takes for your heart to keep beating.
2007-02-02 23:08:54 · answer #11 · answered by Nocturne_in_G_Major 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋