My 15yr daugther beat up my 10yr son when she's
angry.And she slap me once.And one time she bang her
brother aganist the wall.And she says she hates all of
humanity and want to destroy humanity.I think she read
alot of horror books.She told me she like them because
people die in they.And sometimes she has temper
outbrust.And she angry at me she yells at me like shes
my mother.Also she sometime "jokeingly" tried to push
me down the stairs.Another she tired to drowned in the
sink.And she doesn't have friends.She says that"friends
are for weak & moronic idots".she acts like she superior
to all humans.What to do about her?Help me so that I
can have balance in my life.By the way we have some
good days but not always.Srry for spelling &grammer error.
2007-02-02 15:03:38 · 20 answers · asked by motherhate 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I give her boundaries and I punish her but when I do it she curses me when I do it
2007-02-02 15:11:21 · update #1
Seek HELP.
And not from yahoo answers.
2007-02-02 15:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by starrdevine 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to a counselor at your daughter's school and they can get you in touch with someone that can help your daughter. There is no reason that you nor your son should go through that. If you need to get the police involved, don't be afraid to do it. I know what it is like to have a sibbling beat on you and getting your daughter help is going to be the best for your whole family. Good Luck!
2007-02-02 15:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your family needs professional help. I would not wait. It sounds like your daughter is on the verge of truly hurting or killing someone.
I would also think about calling the police on her when she becomes abusive. I know it would be the hardest thing to do to your child but it is in her best interest, and your son's too. Think about what could happen to him.
This is a very scary situation and I wish you and your family the best of luck.
2007-02-02 15:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by Nunya 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to court and get a court intervention,she's a danger to your family and to herself.The police will pick her up and have her admitted into a hospital, where she can get a psychiatric evaluation.They will take good care of her.Hopefully they'll find the right medication for her.It's normal to feel sorry for her when you see what she'll be going through,but her getting help is priority right now.Good Luck& take Care.
2007-02-02 15:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with starrdevi. Seek professional help asap. It is obviously more serious than the passing phase all teenagers go through. Till help comes, encourage her to talk as much as possible about how she feels. Don't interrupt, don't ask questions that you know will annoy her. If you have to ask, put in gentle, unobtrusive questions that will encourage her to open out more.
2007-02-02 15:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by Traveller 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem and the one mitake you did was give them to much confidence what you need to do know and the last thing you could do is beat the shi*out of her so she could know ho the hell is boss but dont just hit her i mean beat the shi* out of her she is going to threaten you with calling the cops and this and that dont worry they wont they are better of with you then whith a group home make them be scared of you not the other way around.
2007-02-02 15:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by vierafan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think you need to get some professional help. Talk to your family physician and he/she can help you more they do have medications for people that have anger control issues. Just let her know that no matter what the doc says that you still love her. Good luck.
2007-02-02 15:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by ilovebears 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your predicament is awful and somewhat dangerous. Start with your GP and ask for referral for either you or her. From the sounds of things, I doubt she be very cooperative with counsellor or such. You need to take care of you and your son.
She needs help and so do you. Sounds like what many call ADDA
please take care.
2007-02-02 15:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jan Frost 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start with her school counselor and get a referral to a psychiatrist. Sounds like she needs some medication, and fast. If you don't do this, she will end up in prison, or dead. Do you understand?
2007-02-02 15:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by littlechrismary 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
take everything out of her room except bed light and clothes. serve meals at the table same time daily. limit her television to when you watch it. no jewelry. when she responds the way you want give something back.
take charge of your daughter you are her father not friend she will respect you. she must know what she loses if she shows disrespect. if she shows attitude physically put her in her room. one foul mouth word and beat her butt.
she must learn that by her decisions she brings consequences and you will enforce her choice.i.e. she brings it on her self.................
2007-02-02 17:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by nikkelbubble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and tell them that she is a danger to you and your son. They will make an incident report and you can take it to the magistrate and ask for a warrant. Maybe the judge will send her to boot camp. Good Luck.
2007-02-02 15:08:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋