what can i do?
2007-02-02 14:49:33 · 25 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him to do his bags.
2007-02-02 15:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by dancingwiththestars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at all your choices:
Confront him.
Ask for an apology and reconciliation.
Find out why he thought that was a good idea.
Hire a lawyer, ask for alimony or child support.
Go to counselling.
Leave him.
Kick him out of the house.
Get drunk over it.
Have an affair for revenge.
You have dozens of choices. What do you want to do?
2007-02-02 22:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out if you are better off with him or without him. If you do decide to leave make sure you have copies of all financial records and pictures of the affair. For your own protection make sure you speak to a lawyer before he knows you know. if he already knows then get to lawyer quickly, believe me he will.
If there are kids involved its tougher, but if you can't forgive him, or hes done it before, there isn't much you can do but live with it. In any event, no one forgets even if they do forgive.
2007-02-02 22:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch him and kill him. In many states, killing your spouse immediately after catching them in the act of an affair is second degree murder or manslaughter (depending on the state) because it is a crime of passion. You'll probably do some time, but you'll feel good about giving him what he deserves.
If you have kids, that's probably not the best way to go.
2007-02-02 23:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you need to make sure he is having an affair. Do some investigation to get your evidence together before confronting him.
2007-02-02 22:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by michellej 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be home when he comes in, come in later .Don't do his laundry tell him to take it to his girl friend, But first take the money out of the bank ,savings and checking befor he dose and put it in another bank in your name only ,Get prepared befor you let him know your fed up .I hope that there are no children involved.
You deserve to be with someone that treats you much better.
And he is out there.
2007-02-02 23:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he crossed the line of marital boundaries I'd say you can
do what ever you want to do. Thing is I don't think you know what you want to do. I suggest taking a step back and view just what kind of relationship you really are in and is it what you want to live with or not...chances are its not and your hoping it will turn into what you would like it to be...don't kid yourself nor lose precious time...it is what it is...consider looking elsewhere for what you want in a relationship...he already has.
2007-02-02 22:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not what you should do - its what you should have done.
take personal responsibility. If he was a dirty rotten cheater before you married him - you should have known.
If he became a cheater after you married him - you didn't keep him happy.
When are women going to figure out that they hold all the cards? Men will do anything for good sex. They really don't care if they are getting it from their wife. They only care if they aren't.
2007-02-02 22:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Once a cheat, always a cheat. You need to get rid of him if you dont want to put up with this. I'm sure not all men are not this way, but you'll be able to tell.
2007-02-02 22:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by pebbles 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should definitely dump him. Real men don't cheat, and losers like him deserve to be alone. You can definitely find someone better, who will treat you right!
2007-02-02 22:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by axlrose9203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce Him. U Don't Deserve That.
2007-02-03 03:47:19 · answer #11 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋