A long term relationship will always go through several skips and bumps, but we will all always wonder.
2007-02-02 14:47:11 · 9 answers · asked by selms01 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The comments I have received as of now have been insightful, who will I talk to now? I guess that I am scared and do not want to face what 12yrs. have become.
2007-02-02 18:48:28 · update #1
Why should he need touch when he's content to have you in his life and heart? Just remember, you won't always be there. You will be making trips, staying home alone, doing things without him, its good that you can exist independent of each other. It just sounds like he's just a little ahead of you on the Limerence Scale. Just relax, as long as he loves you, WHO CARES? You already have MUCH MORE than so many of us!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence
2007-02-02 15:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I had a good level of passion, as well as the friend/partner thing when we married 20 years ago. It turns out that in the marathon that is a successful marriage MOST people kill the passion fairly fast. We gradually grew it which is kind of remarkable. To keep it you need: - To stay friends and have non-sexual fun which creates a broad bond - To treat each other nicely and avoid creating toxic emotional baggage - To avoid chronic and harmful stressors like financial issues - To avoid letting anything happen to your body that turns the other person off - I dislike fat - my wife does also - we have stayed very fit for each other - To give each other physical pleasure in a playful manner every day - hugs, kisses, caresses, mid-cycle a slap or two on the butt sometimes works - To truly put each other first - this is hard but beautiful when you both do it One last thing I will share with you. My wife and I have "mapped" each others bodies. Imagine spending a whole afternoon touching, kissing, licking, .... and asking questions, do you like this, how about that, is that too hard, or too fast. Do that a half dozen times and you will know how to drive each other to the edge. For what it is worth my wife can get me 90% of the way to the finish line "just" using her magic fingers, and never directly touching the equipment. And a few nights a week I get a half hour of "THAT" before we even kiss.
2016-05-23 22:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is either just not into touching (and believe it or not some people are just not into getting or giving hugs, snuggles, cuddles, nuzzles). But if he was into that kind of stuff before with you and now is not then I would say that he has lost interest in you in a sexual way! One other responded by saying that your partner might be cheating on you and if he as lost interest in you sexually that could very well be true because if he is not getting it from you then for sure he is going elsewhere for it! Sorry Sweetie to be so down but that is just what it sounds like to me and you did ask after all.
Hope it is not true tho.
*hugs*
JAC<
2007-02-02 15:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by jackaboo007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow some people arnt very affectionate in general. I geuss if he was before and isnt now ide say somethings wrong . but if hes always been that way maby hes not a touchy feely person and if you need that Id say tell him or move on.
I could never deal with that you may as well just be friends,do you have sex ever?
2007-02-09 22:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by WebmasterHollywood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's more of a spiritual relationship not saying that physical can't go along with the spiritual but some time concentrateing on one can lead to new highs if your careful...
2007-02-09 20:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by screbel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK girlfriend.
He maybe getting himself off, which is okay becuase he likes the feel of s tight grip and he knows what his sensitivity is.
Then he maybe having sex with another person - which is bad, but what is worse is if he is having sex with strangers.
Maybe...you should just grab him and you know....
After that.....you should know. It could be drugs and you would never know.
Good Luck. Write me if you would like to talk later.
2007-02-09 09:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by BMF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's content! Are you getting along? No exsessive fighting an arguing? Is he having male problems? Tell him how you feel, doesnt hurt to ask for what you need!
2007-02-08 18:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this for you, but if you have ever heard of Madea who is on a Comedy Central show-"If you're a screw up husband and you do everything wrong, and your wife is happy as can be, it isnt that Jesus is in her heart, its because shes cheating on you!".
2007-02-02 14:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by victoriahuh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confusing question... but maybe your so wonderful to them that you don't need to touch them to make them happy?
2007-02-02 14:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by Ashers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋