2007-02-02 14:26:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is certainly a group of men who believe that to be the case. That American women are incapable of acting in the traditional role that many societies regard their woman. They see American women as Fat, spoiled, sexually unresponsive, and poor homemakers and mothers. These men are essentially mail-ordering brides from male-dominant societies who regard American men as "catches". Often these men are good providers and these women live their lives in a traditional fashion. Each to their own.
2007-02-02 15:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jim N 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes because they wan't to have their cake and eat it too.
What I mean by this is that when they are young they will give up thier precious thang to anyone who hangs out with them for any amount of time. 2 hours? no problem. One night stand? no problem. First date? no problem.
So after being promiscous in thier younger years, they feel the clock ticking and then get all obsessed about marriage, otherewise they'll end up an old maid. So of course, some poor guy out there will get duped into marriage, which is the worst thing that he can do for himself. Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
Ok, so a few years pass and this woman lets herself go due to kids or being layzy and whatever and dude starts seeking puntang elsewhere, oh crap its the end of the world and she'll take everything you have when she divorces you. Never mind how many lovers she's had in the past, if you ever try to match her numbers, she'll divorce you and you will be the bad guy.
See women these days think that marriage will erase the promiscous past, but no, it will come back to haunt them.
Sorry ladies, the truth hurt don't it.
For those women that actually save them selves for marriage, Bravo!
Sorry for the rant, but I think this is one of the ills of society.
2007-02-02 22:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If ur spoiled your spoiled regardless of the country my freind. I'm not spoiled and I am as Americana as can be. My husband is from Toronto and I noticed that they are more reserved then Americans. But it doesn't make us spoiled or demanding. We're probably a tad bit louder but all in all we're awesome and strong!
2007-02-02 23:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
America is so vast that every county in America have there own sub-cultures. It's hard to generalize American girls. Southern girls and Midwest girls are brought up differently than Los Angeles girls for example. Or the City girl vs the Country girl.
Unfortunately, you cannot control how a woman acts but one thing you have control is how you act. Be that gentleman and maybe the right girl will find you.
2007-02-02 22:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's your definition of Spoiled? If spoiled like a princess, all American girls learn from school that they should grow up to be independent minded. If spoiled as demanding equal rights, doesn;t look like you are ready for it-- you are too worried about losing to and therefore ill-equipped to deal with such women.
2007-02-02 22:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
American women aren't "spoiled" (only children can be "spoiled", and women, as grown adults, by definition can't be "spoiled").
They're independent - they have their own education, their own careers, and their own money. They don't have to depend on a man to pay their bills, so they won't settle for being with a man who's not good for them just because they need a roof over their head and food in their stomachs.
And that's a GOOD thing! Because no adult should have to be totally dependent on another adult.
2007-02-02 22:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is this? I am spoiled, and I'm a normal American girl, but I still want to get married. Why does everyone hate Americans? It's sick.
2007-02-02 22:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Chey 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what is that supposed to mean? Sounds like you want some restrictive old fashioned man-is-the-boss marriage, and that isn't going to fly with most American women.
2007-02-02 22:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont really understand this question?? Are you looking for a wife? A lifetime mate? Or are you looking for a maid, someone to take care of you?? Someone to wait on you?? Are YOU even from America??
2007-02-02 22:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by A Soldiers Wife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously someone doesn't like his women to have minds of their own. Well American women are taught that we don't have to settle for whatever crawls out from under a rock. I suggest you stick to wherever you from for women obviously they're used to being walked on.
2007-02-02 22:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋