the dr told me tht he baby dropped at about 6 1/2 months and that i could deliver at any time. I dont feel the baby at all which distrsses me (went to dr/ had ultrasound everything is ok.) baby is at 4 pounds now. I have discomfort but not enough to complain. Will i be able to drive to hospital? babys dad is out of town and im in a city where i know no one (specialist reasons). I am really nervous and hate the unexpected. I have read all the books but i dont feel that i relate.
help please
2007-02-02 14:25:46 · 14 answers · asked by justus 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Oh, this sounds like me.
When I was pregnant, it was my first also, and I worried about "How will I know? What will it be like?" I think I drove everyone crazy asking and probing for answers. But I will tell you what everyone told me - When it is time, you will know.
Now as for what will go on - I drove myself to the hospital. My husband met me because he was at work. But I also lived about 2 miles from the hospital, so the distance wasn't an issue. I also didn't begin feeling my contractions until I was in labor for around 9 hours. But I also had to have petosin due to my water breaking, but my baby hadn't dropped yet, and I hadn't begun dilation.
All labor is different. It doesn't even matter within families - my sister has 2 kids and her longest labor was 2 hours. I was in labor for 24 1/2 hours (but not all of it was pain - maybe about 5 hours of it was. . . Thank GOD for the epidural).
2007-02-02 14:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by volleyballchick (cowards block) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day, it's your decision and all people can do is offer their opinion and experience in this situation. Personally, I wouldn't abort as I don't see Down's syndrome as a severe enough disability to justify it. In another two weeks, your baby is viable and stands a good chance of survival outside of the womb. Several babies have survived in neonatal intensive care units from 22 weeks gestation onwards. Whilst there are some health complications sometimes associated with the syndrome, a lot of Downs children live extremely happy lives. I've known several in my life and I can honestly say that they were a lot happier than most of the unaffected children I know. They are also very loving. My mum knows a Downs lady in her late twenties who is actually an actress and has her own home. I would suggest you talk to a counsellor before doing anything drastic as they are impartial and can offer some really good advice. In addition to this, you could go and see your doctor and find out what caring for a child with Downs actually involves. At the end of the day, this is still your baby. Abortion is not something to be taken lightly and can cause you permanent psychological damage. If you decide to continue with your pregnancy, whether it is difficult or not, you will adjust to having a child who needs a little extra care. I hope you manage to reach a decision that you are happy with and wish you all the best for the future.
2016-05-23 22:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your water will break any time around the day the baby is due. When the water breaks, your undies will be soaking and it emans you will deliver within the next 24 hours. You will experience contractions ( they will last anywhere between 5-10 minutes apart until the birth). Get someone to take you to the hopspital or call an ambulance if it is REALLY bad. The doctors will induce you and anywhere from that time you will deliver a baby. Labour lasts for a long time. It took my aunty nearly 24 hours to have my cousin.
2007-02-02 14:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me u will know. Labor pain is like no other pain, u might still need to look out for other signs like "the show" and water breaking. and yes u will be able to drive to the hospital, even if u r in labor, it will be a few hours before you really deliver, But keep ur bags ready, if ur dr says u can deliver anytime. And all the best and stay calm, remember ur breathing excercises, it will be good.. All the best and don't get nervous.
2007-02-02 14:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by shilpi_cc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you will definitely know. Usually the contractions are very painful and almost unbearable. You will not be able to drive yourself to the hospital so ask a friend or a neighbor to drive you (set this up on advance just in case it happens in the middle of the night). You can't relate to labor until you have been through it, so try to relax and just enjoy the pregnancy and look forward to your new baby. Try to keep busy in the meantime to lessen the anxiety. Good luck!!! Motherhood is so wonderful!!
2007-02-02 14:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by luvmykids 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry u will be ok. i had 3 babie's and they all were different. my 1st one my water broke(believe me u will know if that happens to u!) i was strep b positive so i had to go to the hospital fairly quick after it started. my 2nd i actually had contractions,they are very strong feelings in your stomach and sometimes back and it hurts. if you take a bath or walk around and they dont go away they are labor and not braxton hicks contractions.it is not discomfort,it is pain. it will take your breath away for a couple minutes.with my 3rd my water broke but i didnt have to rush to the hospital. your water could break or u could have actual contractions. if u feel like u are labor just call the hospital and describe it to a nurse. i didnt know what ti was going to be like either even with my 2nd! good luck!you will get through it. it is pain but it is so incredibly worth it, i would do it 10 more times to have my babies! take care.
2007-02-02 14:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be too nervous to drive to the hospital, call 911.
You really need to get a friend. You could check w/churches or someother type of org. in your area.
If it is possible and your Dr. Oks it see about bieng induced so your man will be there for you. Don't worry too much about what will happen and be going on the dr.s and nurses will tell you everything. And in my opinion, get an epidural!!!! It will make it more enjoyable for you. Congratz and good luck.
2007-02-02 14:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being your first birth and not knowing what to expect DON'T DRIVE. The last thing you need when you're in labour is to worry about controlling a 3000lb vehicle around others. Arrange a ride through a friend/church group, call a cab, call 911 - you'll know when "it's time" and you'll be in more than enough pain to put down the car keys and pick up the phone.
2007-02-04 08:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's early for a singleton baby i had my babies at 32 weeks and they stayed in the hospital for a month not that I'm saying your baby will just try to take a deep breath and understand that most babies at 34 weeks are really healthy and fine it normal to be scared imagine not knowing if your babies were alright i stayed the hospital myself on observation for 4 or 5 days before giving birth if you have a good doctor trust him with the health of you and your unborn baby and find a friend to talk to or write in a journal it helped me get over my anxiety all pregnant women go through it none have never been totally confident their lst pregnancy at least its doubtful
2007-02-02 16:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by leabea1818 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have three children. When I had my first I was very nervous as well. You can not get upset and stressed out about it. When you start getting close you will get braxtin hix contractions a few times a day. They are not painful, its like tightening your belly muscles and releasing. When the real contractions start you will feel its very uncomfortable. Then you start timing them. When they get about five to seven minutes apart, then go to your doctors office or local emergancy room. Its better to be safe even if its false labor. Good luck
2007-02-02 14:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by dolphinnut798 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋