well i just want tips on being more friendly and not making my friends feel sad when i'm sad or make the feel akward......
2007-02-02 14:23:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi, I so totally understand what you mean. I am very friendly I always speak, always polite, but never have much else to say. and it's not that I am shy, I have never been able to be a conversation starter. I have just learn to be me, trust me it is best to observe the behavior of others. You do not always have to be in the mix. These are your friends so I'm sure they understand your personalty. one other thing that I have learn to do is be the same all the time. I never let people know when I am down ( if it is a situation where they can help or you really to need to speak about then let it show). keep smiling in the worst of times. i have lost two brothers and a sister. ( at very young ages.) every one thougth that I was so strong. the truth is I was strong for every one else. and did my grieving privately. Always let your best shows and be true to who your really are trying to step out of your shell. Is not comfortable
2007-02-02 15:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by Vivimos en los Ultimos Dias 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole point of friendship is to share your life with other people. This means goodtimes as well as bad. So if your friends can't be friends when you're down they aren't much of friends. If you don't want them to feel awkward you should simply not make your stressful issues main topic when interacting. Its good to mention that you have a problem because you shouldn't leave them out ,but at some point it may seem like you are always the focus point and that isn't fair to the rest of them.
2007-02-02 14:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, no quantity of earrings, or clothing, will make human beings like you, except you've a sturdy personality. continually keep a grin on your face, and say hi to everyone. do not attempt too not person-friendly to get into communities. continually be ready to help others, yet do not enable them take benefit. continually be nicely dressed, that does no longer recommend intense priced form, only sparkling and ironed cloths that in structure you. continually keep nicely recommended, which means retaining recommended about cutting-edge activities, so that you've some thing to communicate about. only be your self, do not attempt to pretend to be someone you're not to any extent further. a grin is going a ways!!!
2016-11-24 20:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, having too many friend doesn't mean that you're friendly...
You can be friendly by saying Hi to anyone you don't know. Greet them. Or help someone that fall. Or always Smile :) Like me..
2007-02-02 14:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by DuaiTaiTu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I do is not let anybody know when i'm upset. Yeah you will have your good days and bad days but you don't ALWAYS have to let people know that you're upset and sad. Yeah you can talk to people but don't make people feel sorry for ya
2007-02-02 14:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that your very sensitive, There no such thing as too friendly. your just yourself, And that makes you unique. If you need someone to talk to IM me at walking_on_sunshine8 Good Luck!
2007-02-02 14:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh let's see...perhaps if you are more friendly you will seem more friendly........quit being judgemental.....accept things for what they are and people for who they are......that's the beauty of life afterall......
2007-02-02 14:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would open up to them more and give them advice, be nicer, hangout with them more. Be yourself.
2007-02-02 14:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple just lie to them
2007-02-02 14:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be talkative and help them out when they need your assistance.
2007-02-02 14:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋