i think i might be and i just cant blurr it out to my mom. and she doesnt know my boyfriend.
2007-02-02 14:21:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
its never easy to tell ones mother youre pregnant
married or not
my own mother has told me she doesnt ever want me to have kids due to a medical condition i have which is horsepuckey because i know several women in the same situation as i and they have had kids and everything is ok
2007-02-03 05:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by luckyduck2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is no easy way to do it, really. You could write her a letter...like Driving in Cars with Boys....but really this isn't a movie. You need to just come out with it and be honest...and don't wait forever. You will get more respect from your mom if you are honest and tell her right away I'm sure. Then when things calm down a little she can meet your boyfriend.. But if your mom really loves you she will get over this and come to terms with it...and accept you and this baby.
God Bless!
2007-02-02 22:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by fromthecabbagepatch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the way i did it..was i told my mom a few days before that I was going to the drug store to get some HPT for my roommate...And asked her what kind was the best. So she told me then a few days later I asked for the number for my OBGYN and she said why do you need it...and I said well I realized I hadnt had a period for 2 months so i thought I should take a HPT and it came back positive and I just wanted to have the # to call and talk to the ob about an appointment. Then she started to scream and yell and cry and all kinds of stuff...tell me how mad they were at me and everything..and I just told her i didnt need that right now that she could call me back when she had a better attitude. And then about 2 hours later she called me back and said she wasnt really mad just shocked and she wanted to take me to the appoinment. Which was really great because I missed my first period just about 2 weeks after my boyfriend left for iraq...and was being stuborn and waited till my next period was missed before I took a test. But thats what worked for me...good luck.
2007-02-02 22:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, find out for sure if you are pregnant. Then sit her down and tell her you have something really important to talk to her about. Then tell her and ask for her advice. Hopefully you have a good relationship with her and you can put your heads together and decide how to handle it. Wow, I hope my daughter will come to me when she is older if she ever has the same situation. Good luck!!
2007-02-02 22:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by luvmykids 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make a plan first....first set up a dinner,prepare a gud meal.most especially your moms favorite dish. then tell to your parents that your boyfriend is coming...after doing it so....start the conversation by telling to ur mom..."mom,your gonna be a grandmother soon" for sure,at first she might get mad, but dont worry...it will pass....because parents especially mothers can give us all support.wether its good or bad.
2007-02-02 22:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by anne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should just wait and find out first and then tell your mom, there is no point in getting her nervous and stressed out if you aren't.
2007-02-02 22:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by shilpi_cc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take a home test before you say anthing to her. You can get one at the drug store for under 10 dollars.
2007-02-02 22:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I told my mum by buying her a children's book about a baby. I gave it to her wrapped up as a present, and she looked a bit confused when she opened it. I then just said "there's something I need to tell you". It opened up communication channels.
2007-02-03 01:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by nutty_naomi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and talk to her. she is better off knowing soon than seeing an unexpected baby. She will find out anyway. Better off you telling her than you getting into trouble.
2007-02-02 22:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is to go in there and tell here nice and slow and before you go in there try not to look so nervous also tell it to her slow and hopefully everything will go as plan if it works write me bac
2007-02-02 22:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by R3b3llionz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋