One of my friends works in retail and she has a lesbian boss who she enjoys being around. She has so much fun whenever she works with her, and she thinks she's very pretty. She always hopes she gets scheduled at the same time as her. Sometimes when she isn't working, she thinks about her boss. But the thing is, my friend is straight and would never, under any circumstances become a lesbian or bisexual. What are your thoughts about this? Do you think she has an attraction for her? What should she do?
2007-02-02 14:20:33 · 8 answers · asked by Allie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I assume your "friend" is really you....but no there is nothing wrong with it...and no it doesnt mean your "Friend" is necessarily attracted to her in that way..she just really enjoys her company. But if your "Friend" is feeling so strangely about it maybe she should look more closer as to why she is feeling what she is feeling and if perhaps there is some sort of an attraction. Either there there is nothing wrong with it....
2007-02-02 14:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What makes you think she wants or needs to do anything at all? Maybe she just likes her as a friend and you are jumping to conclusions. If she does admit to having an attraction to her boss then things will more than likely work themselves out. There is no need to do anything but what she is doing right now. Being herself and having fun at work. Things will get sorted out with time..if there is anything to sort out at all.
2007-02-02 14:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by storm2325 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is fluid, meaning changeable. What I believe is going on is that your friend see a shot at a little wish fulfillment and although she may never take a shot at it, she is not above using it as masterb*t*on material. Just let her have her "fun" innocently and she'll soon tire of it, trust me. Right now, she's enjoying the mood, but it will pass, it always does.
2007-02-02 16:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you never know in my opinion i thin, that she does hav a few feelings for her boss, if ur not sure why dont you ask her just say "hey do you have any feelings for ur boss" or something like that. or maybe she just really likes her as a friend
2007-02-02 14:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by tkay. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you can't "become" a homsexual. You are born that way or not born that way. She could just really enjoy being aroung her for friendship reasons.
2007-02-02 15:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just likes her as a person and enjoys working with her...It doesn't have to be about sex at all.
2007-02-02 14:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
In human life there are many other things except SEX,.,.....
there is some thing called Liking, Attraction,Freindship, Emotions,,,,,,,
But y we always have to think about SEX..............Please for God sake leave this kind of menatlity
Got it?????????????/
2007-02-02 15:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by SUMMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like my woman work mate and i am as gay as can be...what is the problem if you like someone? do you have to want to go to bed with everyone you find nice?
2007-02-02 14:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by whoknows 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋