2007-02-02 14:04:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-02-02 14:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Greed...Is Good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a time frame to start dating after a divorce. It's when you feel comfortable to go out. Go out with an open mind.. making no quick decisions.. just making a friend and let it go from there. I met my husband thru my job a month after my divorce. I had been married 20 yrs and was really scared. I decided to go out to dinner and just have a nice time. Three years later I married this wonderful man!!! We will be married 4 years this month. Good Luck!!
2007-02-02 14:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by A Soldiers Wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start dating whenever you feel comfortable enough to do so. The marriage was over long before the divorce was final or you wouldn't be divorced. You do not have to wait til he starts dating in order to make you feel comfortable about dating. He will not wait that long to date. Have fun dating.
2007-02-02 14:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by michellej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a divorce it would be a good idea to wait for a little bit. Especially if your hurt.
Have some fun as a single again, then start dating again.
Don't rush into marriage though. You don't want another divorce.
Basically, it depend how hurt you are.
If your not hurt at all, start dating if you want to.
If you are, wait for about a month.
2007-02-02 14:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have my first date 1 hour after
my divorce was official certificated
and 1 year later I marry again!!
I'm not afraid to "joie de vivre"
at least if you are that kind of person
love to sit down and think about
what you do wrong and cry like a baby
days and nights,, is up to you!!!
2007-02-02 14:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by frostycookies9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're ready you'll know. If you have children be discreet until you know that it will be a serious relationship. The divorce is a huge adjustment to children, change is not always welcomed. There is no reason to introduce a new b/f if it is not going to go beyond a few booty calls or dinner.
2007-02-02 14:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by skkydreemer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That night, if you want. It's not like your spouse died. (If it's a death, then you should at least wait a few months, out of respect.) A divorce is a mutual decision to end the relationship, so you can go out whenever you feel ready.
2007-02-02 14:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is actually better to be alone a while to think or to feel free. you got divorced because you couldnt stand the person you were liveing with, then just have some fun and dont date anyone just yet until you find that special one.
2007-02-02 14:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by lizeth g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel comfortable doing so. Everyone gets over a divorce at different rates, so it just depends on what feels right for you.
2007-02-02 14:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the time is right as soon as you feel comfortable to date again.
2007-02-02 14:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all situational. I would say to shield any kids as long as possible to avoid confusion, hurt feelings and resentment. If there aren't kids, I agree with the other guy! THE NEXT DAY! :)
2007-02-02 14:09:11 · answer #11 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋