hay i have alot of problems going on in my life like i got raped 3 times and ive been in alot of stuff lately and im pregnant im thinking about running away im in luv with the baby daddy people are giving m bad advice and they say he will leave me but i know he wont i live with my momma he want me to come live with him and what is the best solution for me?
2007-02-02 13:58:56 · 24 answers · asked by thasexygirl12 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
pregnant runaway.....with no education....yep you are going to get far in life......keep it up girl.......
2007-02-02 14:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
First of all..how old are you. Because in the state I live in..if you run away and are under 16, when you are found you are taken to a detention center. And I dont think running away is going to help the fact that you got raped..its only going to make you an easy target. And I really want you to think about this because you have a baby to support now. You need to do whats best for that baby, Your going to have a bunch of Dr. visits you need alot of really expensive things done to be sure your baby is healthy and your going to need insurance for that. I would talk this over with the guy and with your mom. The guy needs to realize that if you live with him its COMPLETELY his responsibility to make sure you have everything you need. You need to be in a safe place as well because another rape could kill your baby. Just please be safe and really think about this. And sometimes you dont know people as well as you think you do. And truthfully when you are pregnant there are some days you even think..who am I..Im really mean today..or Why cant i stop crying. But again Good Luck and I think your best choice would be 1 to report the rape..go to the police ASAP theres no reason to let someone get away with that. And 2 stay at home with your mother...shes going to be able to help you through this...its gonna be tough.
2007-02-02 14:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like living with your mom has done you much good. Is she a responsible parent or is she just the roof over your head? If she's not competant, then maybe you should try and make a family with your baby's father. Only do this if he's a responsible person and will take care of you and the baby.
You know your mom and bf more than we do. Go with the one who's the most stable, especially since there's going to be a child involved.
2007-02-02 14:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by TJTB 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Do you have another adult in your life besides your mother who you can trust and turn to? Don't run away, It really will be hard especially if you are pregnant. Right now you need to take care of your body and mind more then ever. Id your mother giving you any support or is she against the pregnancy? How about the father of the baby...how does he feel about it? You need to be around somebody who can love you right now and really and truly cares about your well being and the baby's well being. Good luck!
2007-02-02 14:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by luvmykids 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't runaway because it won't solve anything because anywhere you go your problems will right there with you. As for you baby daddy don't know the whole situation but for me my baby daddy left me and my son, now 11years later he's still not around. If he really loves you and wants to be a father then work together to a house of your own depending on your age. Make sure you guys can make it as a family.
2007-02-02 14:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
he is going to most likly leave you after he has to get a job. running away is against the law in most states so if you want to go to juvie then fine with me except then you have a record with the police and then you lose the chance of getting s job to help support your child. you need to stay home unless there are problems and if so go to the police or i am sure there has to be a place to get help such as in georgia there are places called safe place and they help teens in trouble and they try to work things out so look up on yahoo programs for people that need help in your area.
2007-02-02 17:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by soccerknocker199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u seem pretty young, and naive. Is there anyone u trust enuff to talk to? I think there is a lot of issues that u have to look at before deciding to run away. Is ur babys daddy gonna look after u and the baby?
2007-02-02 14:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by sonic98can 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no offence but how did u get raped 3 times, plus u gotta give us some details like how old u are, the best way it to talk to a social broker
2007-02-02 16:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by Orlinda K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
last year i found out i was pregnant and then i got exspelled from skool so i ran away when i got to Texas i got arrested and i was sent to a juvinile detention center and i was there for 3 months and i was 14 and trust me im not fun and unless ur 18 dont even try it its not worth it
2007-02-05 08:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
running away is never the best solution..... how are you going to live?.... whos gonna pay for you?... not to mention your baby.... babies are like, the most expensive thing to ever have.
people are telling tyou that the baby daddy might leave, just because it does happen to MOST, not all... teen mothers. but who cares. prove them wrong.
being pregnant is always hard for everyone. its just a part of being pregnant... you feel really emotional, alot of things are changing.
i promise they will get better.
just wait and they will
good luck :]
2007-02-02 14:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by =] 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would talk to a school counselor.Your school nurse may even be able to help you.I know from experience that running away from problems won't make them go away.If home is not a safe place then maybe you should move in with your b/f's family.Good luck and feel free to e-mail me if you ever want to talk (type) to someone about it.
2007-02-02 14:11:37 · answer #11 · answered by mommyof2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋