My Ex gf wont leave me alone even tho i dumped her when i found out that she was cheating on me?

Question

I broke up with my gf of 4 yrs when i found out that she was cheating on me, now i have decided to move on but she wouldnt leave me alone, she is crying and begging me every day for forgivness and emotionaly black mailing me by telling me that she will die .the problem is she had a long affair with a guy if it was a minor mistake i would ahve forgiven her but what she did was too much infact she told the other guy that she loved him more then me and when i found out she felt sorry and asked for forgivness, now i think she cant see me moving on in my life so please people help me i am desperately seeking some advice thanks

Answer 1

you go man. dont go back to her once a cheater always a cheater. you can use a block on your phone, that will block her number out she will not be able to get through, dont fall for the die thing that is just so you fell sorry for her and take her back, how sorry can she really be when it was an on going thing, she knew what she was doing, just date other girls and try not to have any contact with her, do and say what ever you have to, let her see you have moved on by blocking her number, not returing her calls maybe tell her you will invove the police for herasment I know that is going far, but hay what ever you do dont go back tp that *****, you deserve better, no one should be cheated on any way good luck just stop talking to her

Answer 2

You are doing the right thing for yourself. You need some serious time away from her to clear your thoughts and gain a new perspective, at least a couple or a few months. I think you should tell her that she is disrespecting you, getting in your way, acting desperate, losing your respect, keeping you from being able to straighten out your thoughts by yourself, keeping herself from straightening out her own thoughts for herself. Be firm about it and do it for yourself. And... don't pick up the phone when she calls, or block her from calling if you can, block her emails if you can, and let her deal with her own issues. She'll survive and hopefully learn her own lessons.

Answer 3

dont worry about her. she's just checking if you care or have a chance. DONT FEEL GUILTY. She has the other guy, and will go to him anyways. It doesn't matter what she does, if you made a decision, tell her to move on. Dont give her false hope. She has friends, family, the other guy. She will be fine. You just gotta do what you gotta do

Answer 4

You did the right thing. She's just trying to get attention. She's not the one for you. Avoid her as much as possible and this will force her to accept the fact that it is over. Find someone else who will not cheat on you.

Answer 5

that is a hard one mate. I've had a similar prob a few years ago now. hopefully she will get board soon. in my situation i found a new gf a few months later and that was it for her. i never have seen her again.

Answer 6

tell her you have forgiven her once and she doesnt need to be pestering you anymore tell her in no uncertain terms you are moving on and suggest she does she same

Answer 7

Dont go back to her,she will do the same thing to you again.

Answer 8

Tell her to eff off. Her loss. Ignore her as much as possible...that mean NO talking to her at all. She'll tire of it.

Answer 9

don`t talk 2 her & don`t call her bak or go bak 2 her she`ll do the same thing over again & GOOD LUCK FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON :~)

Answer 10

Don't be to hard on her but make sure she knows that there's no way you're coming back to her. Let her know it's time to move on for both of you.