And it seemed like that ring and paper changed all that and now your married to a real stiff? I hear this alot and dont quite understand why some people think being married means you no longer need to flirt and be sexy for each other.
If this is you,how long did it take for the spark to die in your marriage? Or was it instantaneously?
2007-02-02 13:52:11 · 11 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually, we find eachother MUCH hotter now then when we first started dating.
During that time, it was good. But now that we're married and went through the hell storms and experienced joy and back down to hell again ... the struggles made us respect eachother more and more.
Our love deepened and our physical attraction for eachother increased BIG TIME!! We deff. matured though it all =) Couldn't ask for anything more!!
2007-02-02 15:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are times when it's like that but I there are also times when you start to do the usual things that you did before but it's never like the old days. It's more of just bringing the spark back.
My hubby complains about it saying that I'm no longer that flirty and doesn't really initiate on things anymore but I have other responsibilities now. So basically it's more of putting a balance to it.
2007-02-02 14:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
God i should just copy and paste this to everyone on here and i would have level 50 by now..it happens its like a car deal the dealer promises you everything and then after the sale you cant find him..the deal is locked up tight and you are stuck..best thing is if you are really upset with this divorce and never get married anymore untill if the day comes that you can just be satisfied with being around them .and thats all .. it happens to men with their wives and wives with their husbands personally I think marriage should be banned or subject to renewal every two years.. if they can ban smoking then why cant they ban marriage really this is ridiculous that its happening to people everyday both men and women and very sad..
2007-02-02 14:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG this is my life! IT was soooooooooo good in the beginning. As soon as we moved in together and got married it all stopped. Now we seldom talk. We hardly sleep together let alone anything else....It took about 2 years for it to go downhill. Still married but no spark..not even a flicker.
2007-02-02 13:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When we were just dating it was great and then we moved in and it was still great then we got married after 4 years of this great life and we started sleeping in separate rooms. Stopped trying, had sex very seldom, never complement each other, never do anything together. BUT yet we are still married???
2007-02-02 13:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by chemky1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well mine was after i had my second kid. then i wanted another one then he was cool and had no problem now lol i wish it was the good old days it drives me nuts. but im working on him hes doing better. it was 2 years into marriage. it sucks and i hate it. most of the time its the woman nope it's the man here!
2007-02-02 15:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by wishstar28 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
marriage is kind of like a good job that you don't want to loose.
patience, kindness and a ton of tolerance does the trick.
and like with everythng else, you have to work on it to make it good.
2007-02-02 14:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stiif? no pun intended huh? lol no my wife was sexy n hot before marriage and 20 yrs later is even more so---and thats no lie!
2007-02-02 14:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
After the honeymoon they all turn into cold bitches. That is until they want to have a kid.
Then they go right back to ***** mode. Only now you can't get away.
2007-02-02 13:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
YES AND AFTER ALMOST 41 MONTHS HE STILL IS. WE STILL DO LITTLE THINGS FOR EACH OTHER AND TELL EACH OTHER I LOVE YOU EVERYTIME WE TALK TO EACH OTHER DURING THE DAY AND B4 WE GO TO SLEEP AT NITE.
2007-02-02 14:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by mrs_pipesmoker 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋