2007-02-02 13:51:53 · 11 answers · asked by speddy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband had an affair 5 years ago. We are still together but I have never gotten over the betrayel. I don't think he has cheated since, but I have never regained faith in him or in our love that I though we had. I now wish he would leave. I have never been the same, suffering from depression, low self esteem, disgust in him, and the constant wishing that he would have had enough love and respect for me to keep his thing in his pants. He makes me sick now.
2007-02-02 14:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by skkydreemer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I found out awhile ago that the man who I have loved more than anything in my whole life cheated on me. It totally broke me. We are still together but because I dont feel the same about myself now he doesnt look at me the same. I also am not the same person, I'm more cynical and even though I love him to the end of the earth sometimes I still cant get it out of my mind and I treat him bad. I want us to be together forever but I dont now anymore if he will love me forever. I've lost all of my self confidence so I dont know if it will last. I'm so sad.
2007-02-02 22:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by tarahump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has cheated on me numerous times but yet to this day were together. It happens more then 3-4 times a year. My hubby doesnt know how to keep his pants up. It is causing lots of problems with our relationship but i honestly could say i despite all hes put me through could never love another man as much as i love him. We have worked through his issues for almost 6 years now.
2007-02-02 22:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by amanda_shay_bauer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me about a year and a half ago, but that wasn't the end. He also created another child to go along with that cheating. I have to admit it hurt so bad, like something tearing me apart on the inside, we already had 3 kids of our own. I could not bare the pain he had hung on me, so I left him. After all of the pain I still loved him, but I needed to be away, somewhere where I could find myself, somewhere where I could deal with what was going on inside of me. He was really, ashamed, full of pain,and somewhat regretful, but it wasn't going to change his deceit, so I made him suffer,the saying goes if you really love them, you have to leave them, and if they come back then its real? Well I put our future on the line as well as he did, but I guess we both learned that there are many things in life that aren't easy, so I put aside all of the hate, and forgave him, and then myself, for all that I had picked up throughout the ordeal, but to end it , I think he understood his wrongs, and saw the loss of the woman that he really loved, and got it together. Everyone learns from their mistakes its just up to them to want it, and if your there then you have to be the strong backbone.
2007-02-03 01:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were seperated for 6 months and back together 1 year ago and now we have a 3 months old baby. I've learned a lot of things from it and forgiving is one of them.
2007-02-02 22:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by Aquarians 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was unfaithful on the computer early in my marriage but we worked it out and saved and restored our marriage and I am VERY happy to say that we are still together and stronger and more in love then ever!! Married for 7 going on 8 years
2007-02-02 22:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cheated on my husband a year ago. we are still together!!! he has done stuff but with cheating i dont really know that. u can get over it. we are more happier now then before.
2007-02-02 23:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by wishstar28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated one year ago,,,we got separated 4 months ago . Today finally we got divorced officially.
2007-02-02 21:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody cheats. Why do you care? Don't be so naive. Its all your choice to keep being together or not.
2007-02-02 21:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i got cheated on then divorced..
2007-02-02 22:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋