What should i do I love and want to be with him
2007-02-02 13:43:10 · 9 answers · asked by SHARON 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait until the time is right. He needs to be single first. Don't pursue a relationship right now. Bad timing sucks for everyone, but that's what it is right now. If you two truly want to be together do it with morals and maturity. If he really loves you and is aware that you are single, the ball is in his court. Don't spend your whole life waiting for him, give it a time limit and then move on.
2007-02-02 13:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by skkydreemer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK your grammer leaves something to be desired. I take it that you meant to say you dated a guy for 11 years and since breaking up you have married and got a divorce and he has been dating someone else but does still love you. If my understanding is correct then my answer is this:
If he loves you and knows you are single and available and want to be back with him then he will leave the other girl and come to you. However, if he knows all these things and is still dating the other girl then no he is not in love with you anymore. He may love you but there is a difference between love and being in love. I was with my ex for 6 years. I still love him as a person and we are friends. I am not in love with him and do not want to be with him romantically ever again. See the difference?
You and this guy need to have a heart to heart talk. Just lay it all out on the table how you feel about him and what you want. This is the only way to resolve the problem. When he understands exactly what the situation is he will either come back to you or make it clear that he doesn't want that. Either way you win. Rejection may hurt but at least you will know where you stand and can begin to move on and find someone else. Good luck to you.
2007-02-02 13:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by evergoth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he loves you why is he with someone else? Are they serious? Do they have children? Why did you break up in the past? Think about all those things.
2007-02-02 13:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by chemky1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to do the right thing, just leave him alone. He is now living his life and moving on with someone who he loves.
So you need to move on with your life and move on too!
2007-02-02 13:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him completely alone. If he becomes available without anyone else in the picture, then go for it.
2007-02-02 13:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should also take into account of what he wants. you can't have the cake and eat it too! It's and old saying I have always heard.
2007-02-02 14:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by STARS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with him in the first place?
2007-02-02 13:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
an ex is usually an ex for a reason!
think it over... why is he an ex?
2007-02-02 13:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once is dumb, twice is stupid...
2007-02-02 14:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋