- My best friend and I have been friends for 2 years now, everyone thinks we are the coolest best friends ever, but recently she has started to hang out with this other girl and she always says I'm jealous, it makes me really mad. She now has suggested we don't be friends anymore, I said No, but I still think she wants to be over, how do I get her to be close to me again?
2007-02-02 13:40:29 · 14 answers · asked by rockybalboa_fan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her how you feel, and that you feel like your left out. If she's really your friend she'll listen and understand you.
2007-02-02 13:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by frenchflute2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same exact thing happened to me in sixth grade. me and my friend, Stacy* were friends since second grade and then a new girl moved to town(Heather*). we both started to become friends with heather and started to ditch each other. then i told her that i couldn't be friends with her if she'll never hang out with me and she e-mailed me back saying that she misses being my friend and she didn't like heather. after we got in a fight with heather and now she won't talk to us anymore, but if a girl came between our relationship and tried to break us up, then we knew and wouldn't talk to her. i know this is mean and i'm not saying you shouldn't talk to either of them but, you should tell your friend how you feel. if that doesn't work then you know she's not your best friend. is all that pain really worth being the "coolest best friends"?
2007-02-02 13:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by girlfrann. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a new "best friend" and she told you that you guys shouldn't be friends anymore, then let her be that way. She sounds like a jerk (lol). Friends don't do that to each other, and she's obviously NOT a friend. Just forget about her, and make new friends. Sometimes, you just have to let good friends go. God bless.
2007-02-02 14:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should just sit down and talk to her. Tell her how you feel but don't be too agressive or break down in tears. Take her out to eat with her new friend. Maybe all three of ya'll can be friends. That way everyone is happy and you still have your ebest friend. plus a new friend.
2007-02-02 13:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by sassymouth27 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I have been you i could confront Joan and tell her the way you sense. sure it is uncomfortable and feels weird and wonderful yet while she's been your chum for numerous years consistent with probability you are able to only get it carried out and over with. even consistent with probability confront Annie to boot. of course some thing isn't suited in the event that they're boasting and bragging approximately going to one yet another's properties. i think of they could be attempting to make you jealous or consistent with probability Joan only ought to be pals with somebody knew like Annie. i be attentive to while i grew to become right into a infant I consistently had to be pals with extra moderen human beings simply by fact they have been exciting and New to me of course. only confront her approximately and tell her which you do not comprehend. If issues do not artwork out i'm practically valuable you will make new pals in extreme college. whether it hurts and you do not opt to think of valuable approximately it think of of it as a super gamble to make new pals and that i assure you Joan and Annie heavily isn't pals to any extent further while no person cares what they do and that they are able to't be brats to you Joan or Annie will chum sell off one yet another and he or she'll come working lower back to you. it is only as much as you in case you opt to forgive her. desire this helped.
2016-09-28 08:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she doesn't want to be ur friend, she is prob. not a true friend. She sounds like she is kinda mean. I think u would be best off with a person that really cares abou tyou. I really hope everything works out! Good Luck!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-02 13:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think that you should go make some more friends. Or you could hang out with your friends friend. Invite her friend over and start to be friends with her. soon, hopefully, you will all be friends.
2007-02-02 13:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by *Music ♥ Love* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are over whelming her with all this bf stuff. She just wanted a new friendship. You should relax your grip and find new people to hang with. Open up and you will find the right bf for you.
2007-02-02 13:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by Flipp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah,I've been in the same kind of situation once before.Only thing you can really do is let go and go about your life instead of worrying about theirs.
Most friendships come and go.You thought it was going to last forever.
2007-02-02 13:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by nerve34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well let her try being with the another friend!!!because her might find out at last that there is something missing in her and she will find out that no one can replace you not even her then she will come back to her..........
2007-02-02 13:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jacky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋