hay i know im young but th boy iv been with him for 10 moinths before doing something he says he'll take care of it he did not trip he says he was happy so what sha'll i do he did not make me i did it on my own i luv him
2007-02-02 13:25:34 · 31 answers · asked by thasexygirl12 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hay well im actually 14 ill be 15 in april but i am pregnant i know its early he did not force me pople are always tellin me erday u are going to be pregnant b4 u are 16 and i guess that got n to my head but that was my first time and the father is there for me ive been knowing him all my life going with him for 10 months but i dont know how to tell my parents any solutions
2007-02-02 14:36:02 · update #1
well if you wouldn't have been having sex at 13 you would not be pregnant.....maybe this will teach you to close your legs until you are mature enough to take care of a child and also finally stable.....i feel bad for the child and trust me the guy who tricked you into this will NOT stick around they never do....he just wanted to get laid is all, doesn't care at all about you...
2007-02-02 14:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I think there going to be dissappointed in you but you better tell them b/c your life is about to change. Good your bf loves you did he tell you what date he is planning your wedding? since he loves you so much and god bless him for being able at 15 to support a wife and child. He must have a very good paying job. Did you pick out a house yet and plan a baby shower. And when the time comes make sure to tell him to drive carefully to the hospital? You know how excited men can get in situations like that.Sorry for sounding so mean but sweetheart that is the reality of things to be mature enough to take care of all the responsibilitys its not a fairy tale and you cant put that baby on the shelf.At his age watch him get cold feet when it comes down to the crunch.God Bless you and your parents
2007-02-06 14:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats your fault ma....you live and you learn. Dudes will sweet talk you and tell you all kind of things to get what they want and afterwards poof like magic they're gone out your life and then youre wondering what move do you make next you shoul've thought about the process you were going to go through but evidently not so you have to deal with the consequences and ABORTION should NOT be the answer or solution talk to your parents about it and keep your head up throughout it all and dont ever make that mistake again because the next time it wont be a mistake!!
2007-02-02 21:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by myrawil@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if your boyfriend is the same age as you it will be pretty hard for him to take care of you considering he will only get a min paying job. I dont know your parents or if you are close to them or not but you def need to talk to an adult. just tell them, they will probabl be shocked and upset but hopedully they will want to guide you and help you. Please stay in school and dont be fooled pregnancy is not easy! You will face more changes and emotions then you can ever imagine! Many adults find it hard to cope with the life changing event of pregnancy let alone a teenager in high school. I hope everything works out for you. hope for the best prepare for the worse.
2007-02-02 23:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by estkijedsco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to tell your parents sooner or later as they will notice the physical changes in you, with the pregnant tummy.
How old is the boy? Most teenage boys cannot afford to provide for a girl and an infant, especially when they are supposed to finish their education first. If he really loved you he would not have gotten you pregnant to begin with.
Good luck.
2007-02-02 21:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh your only a child...I hate hearing stories like this it really hurts to hear them.But honestly you need to tell your boyfriend and let him know.Then you need to get his parents and yours together and just tell them.But please whatever you do DONT get an abortion.Theres so many families out there that would love to have a child who cant,if you have to give the child up for an adoption.But you really need to consider the fact that you are being blessed from God with a child and there is a reason for everything.But be careful and safe with whatever you do and know that there is always someone that loves you and its God.Not topreach to you but i hope everything turns out ok and you make all the best descions for you and your future child.GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-02 21:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by *** 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Woah, that's young. Have you actually done a pregnancy test? or is your period just late... Speak to your parents, they can help you through it. Pregnancy can be scary for adults, let alone kids. At 13 you're still a child yourself.
How, exactly does you BF plan to take care of you? Is he older, does he have a job? You need to look out for you. Discuss it with your parents, they are the ones who love you no matter what.
Good luck.
2007-02-02 21:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by loubylou 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
10 months isnt a long time... you shouldnt have done that... i dont think you'll know what real love is until you get older... if he loved you he would have used protection... if he loved you he would have told you not to have sex at that age.. if he loved you he would have told you that you dont need to have a baby... boys that age just want to take you for a ride and then leave you... my friend has been with her boyfriend for a year and she's the same age as you and i dont see her going around getting herself pregant cuz of how long she's been with him... i think that you should tell your parents... and then give your baby to your parents to take care of cuz you and yo babydady cant do **** for that baby at your age.
2007-02-03 19:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by iLaugh [a lot] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl there's no use questioning you or askinh why you this happened since what's done is done we can't turn back time.AT this point you need guidance. Tell your family about this.They are the best people to help you.Before you tell them about it watch the movie "Riding In Cars with Boys" with Drew Barrymore. Hope this helps
2007-02-02 22:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit them both down and talk with them. Tell them how you and your boyfriend feel about the situation. It is time for you to step up, and take on some major responsiblility now though. Be prepared for any response they may give you, good or bad. Good Luck!
2007-02-02 21:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by Olivia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way around it, unless you plan to get an abortion, and may be able to get away with not telling your parents. Either way, the best thing to do is to tell the parent you trust most. Then they will work with you in getting everything in order to let everyone know.
You wont be thatsexygirl anymore that's for sure.
2007-02-02 21:51:49 · answer #11 · answered by wonderwhy2100 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋