i seriously have a problem..theres this girl at school n i like her..i have fantasies about us...not just sexual but romantic im 15 yrs old..she is a lesbian but im scared 2 "come out" what do i do?
2007-02-02 13:10:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well Tyler, nothings gonna happen unless you take some kind of step...otherwise nobody will know..and you won't magically get what you want.
2007-02-02 13:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she's a lesbian? If it's just because you think or hope so, I'd look more into it.
If you know for sure go after her. Just because you (might) get in a relationship with her doesn't mean that it's a definite that you're gonna have to come out.
Don't come out until you're ready. And if she's okay being in a relationship with you not being out then you can wait until you're ready and have a stable relationship with her so you can have someone who's gonna be there for you when you do come out.
2007-02-02 21:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come out when you are ready. Just be strong and realize that there are going to be those who will be cruel, but there are also people who will stand by you. Look up a support group or hotline for gay teens, having some others to talk to would be helpful. Good luck.
2007-02-02 21:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by alessa_sunderland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just think she is a Lizzy. Go to her and tell her how you feel. Otherwise you will always wonder "what may have been".
2007-02-02 21:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im me i will explain to you.
2007-02-02 21:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋