Do you have a goal in mind other than wrecking a home? It hardly ever last so why don't you go for a single guy there are tons out there.
2007-02-02 13:08:17 · 19 answers · asked by txO3blueeyes 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Any body who messes with a married man/woman is a worthless piece of crap who has no respect for anybody. Including themselves. They are probably seeking the excitement in the danger, and I think it makes them feel "important". Like "wow, he is willing to put me before his wife" It's a power trip, and it's disgusting.
2007-02-02 13:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by skkydreemer 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
I feel the same way you do. I have always wondered that. I think that some women know that they don't want a man for keeps so they get a married man and he spends money on them takes them out and it is always exciting. And they know he has to go home so she is not stuck with him and doesn't have to do his laundry or put up with the bullshit his wife does. And she still has her free time and he can't really ask her a whole lot of questions or put any real demands on her because after all he is married. Wow is this starting to sound good?
2007-02-02 13:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it definitely takes two. i think that men can definitely be the "weaker" sex when it comes to sex though. sex is not the only thing it took to build the relationship and not the only thing that will make a new one either. not that it is an excuse, but many women will use it to their advantage. some women fall for the "my wife doesn't understand me" lines and feel as if they can fulfill that emotional need and then form an attachment and run with it. many times i think they feel like they "saved" him therefore they should be with them. i think it is selfish and inconsiderate...send them home to their wives until there is no home left to send them to. DON"T MAKE THINGS WORSE. sometimes a problematic home can be fixed, but it makes things a lot harder when a single woman can't choose from the many single men out there. a relationship built on lies and dishonesty is doomed for failure. OK sorry about the rant...women get a life, just not with someone else's husband!!!
2007-02-02 13:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by mcneely96 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Totally agree - but remember it takes two to tango. What is it with those married men who mess with other women?
The old "he's just a man - what was he to do" line doesn't wash. Everyone has the ability of self-control. If a man isn't interested to begin with, there ain't no would-be home-wrecker in the world who stands a chance.
2007-02-02 13:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree w/ you I dont like homewreckers either. Single women go after married men in my opinion b/c they are a challenge and they have nothing to lose until the wife finds out. Thats one reason I dont like strip joints I dont want some woman all over my husband I dont have to take my clothes off to get my husbands money I told him my job is a chronic money spender. If a woman ever messed w/my husband she would see a side of me no one ever saw before.
2007-02-02 13:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you 110%. I think people go into those affairs only thinking about the physical pleasure and don't realize the damage that it can do, not just to the marriage but if the person who's married has kids, the damage it can have on the kids.
2007-02-02 13:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I was sixteen, seventeen out of immaturity I thought it was fun to mess with married mens' heads. A lot of my friends did it too. I personally never got involved (some of my friends at that age did) but I can tell you that the married men are the ones that really jump at the opportunities. We were just being naive, reckless and stupid. Now I'm married and I am on the other side but I'm not really threatened by these girls because I know where they're coming from. As for adult women who mess with married men, I don't know about that.
(And I have to agree with the girl who posted above me, these guys are doing it just for thrills. They absolutely LOVE and RESPECT their wives and families. Sex is just sex.)
2007-02-02 14:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by can'tstopthinkingaboutthis 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Commitment phobia, it empower them, no strings attached and just plan afraid to relinquish control in a relationship. But no control here in the long run. Get a life and a purpose and let the married men go.
2007-02-02 13:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by Sports Maven 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good question. I never really got that. Is it the thrill of the chase? Is it the man not mentioning that he is married? Is it the lack of committment? Is low self-esteem--it makes them feel good if they can steal a man? Is it a total lack of morality? If you find out, let me know. Interesting question.
2007-02-02 13:14:22 · answer #9 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, maybe if you treated your man a little better, he wouldn't be looking for "home wreckers" ever think that YOU might be the reason that there are women who "look" for married men? Or is everything ALWAYS someone elses fault....
2007-02-02 14:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by Pandora 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋