OK ...
I've been dating this great guy for a few months and everything is going great!!! ... The thing is I've been sort of sick a lot with strep throat, tonsilitis, etc since I started dating this guy. Don't tell me it's STDs because we're both clean and I made sure of that before we became intimate. It's driving me nuts ... I'm right now in 2 week long antibiotic treatment... ***sigh***
Same stuff happened when I dated my previous boyfriends, the first few months into a relationship ... I was always sick and then got better.
So, I wonder why ...
Have anyone experience the same before? ...
2007-02-02 12:45:47 · 10 answers · asked by Nicegal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I haven't had a similar experience, but have you had your tonsils out? They can serve as a permanent reservoir for bacteria, especially strep.
Also, current research has discovered that peridontal disease (infected gums) is much worse than previously believed. It probably wouldn't hurt to see a dentist for an exam.
Your immune system could be compromised for some reason. This could be due to a vitamin deficiency or something else like an enlarged spleen, or an undiagnosed case of hepatitis A or liver inflammation. It'd be a good idea to get a white blood cell count. It definitely sounds like something chronic, so I'd get on top of it if I were you.
2007-02-02 12:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and this is a bad sign on the relationship. But it might be you. You might want to be checked out by the doctor just to be on the safe side. There may be a reason you keep getting sick all the time that has nothing to do with this guy.
2007-02-02 14:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by maisie24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of you is probably a carrier of some mild infection or disease, in time you will become immune to it from each other, but you are passing around a lot of fluids by kissing, etc, and so you are technically playing sickness tennis. Just take the anti-biotics and give it some time.
2007-02-02 12:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this bliss or stresful with unreal expectations of each other. Sound self imposed and probably self consciously he is not it. Does he cuss? Does he drink too much? Does he fart? Does he bother your psyhe? Stop dating for a week and see if you feel better. If you do dump him. Negative energy..
2007-02-02 13:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sports Maven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get sick easily, and I doubt it's because of the men you date. Make a doctors appointment and tell your doctor about your concerns.
2007-02-02 12:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's the stress of a new relationship. Even though it is good stress it is still stress.
2007-02-02 12:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by hstoic01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he is probably seeing a bunch of other people and it spreads faster.
2007-02-02 13:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask him if he changes his speedos and socks every day?
2007-02-02 12:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's toxic to you. Move on.
2007-02-02 13:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chris D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is a carrier of strep throat!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-02 12:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋