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2007-02-02 12:36:58 · 13 answers · asked by Tiffany 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There are only two rules in life... Determinism and Randomness..
What, I mean Determinism is following and working towards your goals.
Randomeness Just living day to day..
It's up to you..
A human being can do anything they want but you cannot control anything...
Big Frank
2007-02-03 03:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by FXM65 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These are the times that truly test your attitude and maturity. There are many things that occur in our lives that are beyond our control. With these events the best we can hope to do is come out the other side still smiling and maybe a little smarter for the experience. Look at these things as a challenge or a test. Your life will be better for it.
2007-02-02 20:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Accept that you can't control those things.
2. Take control of the things that you do have control over.
2007-02-02 20:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by ms_lain_iwakura 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. You will want to stop fretting and worrying about it but you can't. You can only wait. When something of the sort happens to me, I find myself feeling helpless and asking "god" for help. The funny thing is that I don't believe in god. I just want him to be there when I want something from him. Anyway, I just try my best to get my mind off of it and think, there's nothing you can do, and tell myself everything will be alright.
2007-02-03 00:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Dido 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whether we like it or not, things around us will happen and some will hit us badly. its best that we equip ourselves to handle such situations. getting emotionally stronger, psychologically prepared and maybe physical strength would also help. dont worry too much. try not to lose sleep, weight. life has many more years to offer us. treat these as temporary setbacks that will pass with time. if people are obnoxious, avoid them. seek new friends who are kind and gentle. the world is filled with people who has both good and bad qualities. lets seek out those with good ones
2007-02-02 20:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Nothing! If we could control these things we would.Like somebody having cancer or heart problems diabetes there is alot of things we can't control but we do have to learn to accept them!
2007-02-02 20:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may sound silly, but just sit down right in the middle and do nothing. By not doing anything you have allready begun to change things.
2007-02-02 20:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by Tim G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You follow your instincts. If your instinct is to run, then run.
When you are in a situation you can't control, you have to do what is right by you.
2007-02-02 20:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by slasher 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should ask somebody who knows better than you about THIS THING. you can get help from outside to control anything...
2007-02-02 21:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by julianvagyok 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If if is relationships, then just take care of yourself. If it's a bad boss, then look for another job quick.
2007-02-02 21:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by JiveSly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋