okay so there is this girl ... Lets name her jackie. She is pretty tight at times, but at others she can just bug. Shes annoying and wayyy too nosey. She is OVERLY obssesive with people ... and just needs to chill. What should I do ... continue being her friend ... or just lay low ... and tell her the truth. I NEED SOME MAJOR HELP !!!
2007-02-02 12:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by Allyson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It depends on whether, all in all, her presence in your life is enhancing. Is she a real friend or no? Someone you think will be in your life 5 years from now? If you can be a real friend to her and accept her for who she is, then continue being friends with her. The way to overcome the annoyances is to acknowledge your differences, be patient, understand that she has good qualities as well, and also, perhaps you have qualities that she might find less than admirable too. If she steps on your toes, you can be assertive with out being confrontational. You make your own boundaries and you can handle it respectfully when she might unknowingly cross them.
2007-02-02 12:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me. my recommendation: start talking to your other friends while shes around and kinda ignore her, she wont get the point that you hate her if you kinda include her in your talks. be like what'd yall think about the test in (whatever class)? or something and if she starts to say something just cut her off and be like I THOUGHT IT WAS REALLY HARD. i think the annoying people are annoying because we give them too much attention so just dont pay a lot of attention to her and pray that one day she will get the point.
2007-02-02 12:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by HELLO123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just sit her down and have a chat to her about what it is that annoys you about her.... Seriously - i do it all the time - it doesnt mean that you will be a ***** for it - all my friends know where they stand with me and me with them- if they are annoying the crap out of me then i tell them and vise versa - just have a talk to her....
2007-02-02 12:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell her the truth. but say it nicely!
dont be mean. it sounds lyk she has some issues and u would be a really nice person if u didnt avoid her lyk every other ***** in the world....
hope this helped
:D
2007-02-02 12:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by x0 swim chick 0x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her the truth becayse if you don't some day she will do something mean to you so take my advise and tell her to but off
2007-02-02 12:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by waynensheri@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing you should continue being friends with her. open up with her. tell her how you feel about her.. GENTLY. i'm sure she'll understand. maybe something's troubling her.. that's why she's acting like this. you stick to your friendship, help her.. and even stand up for her. she's YOUR friend. =)
2007-02-02 12:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth but dont be to harsh, she will understand.
2007-02-02 12:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Blueberry. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth if she cant accept it then drop her you dont need anyone cramping your style if she changes then she's worth the time
2007-02-02 12:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by strwberryshortcake_65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her she is your friend.
if you think she is a ***** she is not.
2007-02-02 12:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any thing
2007-02-02 12:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by jackiefl01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋