why do some men have the need to be the center of attention all the time. they have to be on the phone, texting or just be busy doing something that makes them feel important ALL the time!
is this an insecurity?
2007-02-02 12:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mostyl insecurity. They have to be in motion at all times to prove their worth to themselves and society in general. Guys like that are a pain in the *ss.
2007-02-02 12:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kevman9999 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some PEOPLE are just needy. This crosses all gender and racial lines. Why, I do not know, but there are just some people like that. If these happen to always be the men you seem to end up in relationships with, you need to adjust the standards you have set for yourself. There are certain characteristics you are attracted to in men. I am willing to bet that those characteristics are also common in the type of people whom you are talking about.
2007-02-02 20:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's insecurity. They;'re looking for validation. They want you to know how important they are so that you'll think they're important too.
That being said, I actually have a question; Why do women dress like porn stars to go out for the evening, talk only to each other, and then act like royal byotch's when you approach them? If they didn't want guys talking to them, asking them to dance, or asking to buy them a drink, then why did they go out at all? They could have stayed home if their little conversation was that important! So what gives???
2007-02-02 20:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man and I dont feel the need to be the center of attention. Maybe only the men you are around are like this.
2007-02-02 20:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by tchem75 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do women have to have control? Is that insecurity? There are some men who just need to make themselves be noticed! This is there way. It's not all bullshit though, I think most of the time people who strive so hard to be noticed get noticed. Do you agree? Good luck and be patient.
2007-02-02 20:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it may be insecurity but men are not the only ones that can seem this way... There are women that seem so need as well. Goes both ways.
2007-02-02 21:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure is an 'insecurity' ... and if you are the 'woman' in his life and it's not you he's 'texting' then I'd definitely 'wonder' how good my relationship with him was. My husband loves to play RPG games on his computer, but I could at least play my 'tile games' at my computer next to him, and we'd talk ... but now he's gotten me 'addicted' to playing World of Warcraft and we play 'together' ... at our 'side by side' computers at home, and as 'characters' in the WoW 'world' ... and that is 'very good' for both of us. So ... it's up to you, if you are with a man who is this 'insecure' whether to 'join him' or to 'dump him' ... but I'm never going to 'dump my man' no matter how 'insecure' he might be at times.
2007-02-02 20:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course....but realize that there are some women the same way.
I have known of people of both sexes that cant be alone. If they get out of a relationship, they will take anyone who comes along so they wont be alone.
And yes, some people need their ego stroked constantly.
2007-02-02 20:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by mslider2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it the center of attention or is it avoidance? No one can ask much of you (like intimacy, responsibility, love, security, maturity) if you are much too busy.
2007-02-02 20:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they have their little obsessions just like the ladies do.. and you have many so why can't guys have things they like to do or they are obsessed with..whats so bad wrong with that..what if they just sit around and looked and acted like a stone would you like that better
2007-02-02 20:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋