okay the problem is that i have masterbated analy wit a dildo, i ofthen wear a thong and maybe a bra , i like the feeling of anal sex, and i like the thought of given dome and watever he wants but i cant see myself lovn a man do u think it could be that i havent found the rite one ... IM REALLY CONFUSED, i
2007-02-02 11:54:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
there is NOTHING wrong with u, understand. ur just going through a stage in ur life that we have all gone through, a phase where u r beginning 2 understand urself and ur sexuality. u might not c urself loving a man and that's normal. i always thopught i was going 2 love a woman. men never crossed my mind, but then i started doing similar things that u r and i decided that the gay lifestyle was 4 me abotu 2 years ago. now i am 15 and i have already had 3 relationships (all with men). if u don't think u can be with a guy (in the whole "love" respect), then try dating girls and c how it goes. good luck
2007-02-02 13:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by blewboy333 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First lots of men like anal stimulation. It's because the anus is well supplied with nerve endings and also because the prostate is accessible from the rectum. This has really nothing to do with gay or str8.
Second you like to wear a thong. So what? I don't like to wear a thong because I find them uncomfortable.
Wearing a bra. Mmmm. Now we're getting into crossdressing. Is this more about gender identity do you think?
A majority of men with non-mainstream gender identities are in fact straight.
Loving a man. Perhaps you just haven't found the right one.
What I think about you. I think you are a person who needs to worry less about being something and get on more with the action. Just do what feels right to you and you will eventually discover what compartment you fit into, if you really have to.
Just remember safe sex.
2007-02-02 13:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is everything revolved around sex? What are your interests or hobbies? Sounds as if you might have a low self esteem issue. I personally think you need to seek out a Christian physiologist to help you identify who you are. Set short and long range goals in your life. If you don't have a hobby; find one. Surround yourself with positive Christian people, good books & intertainment. Life is filled with CHOICES, remember the choices we make now can and will affect us the rest of our lives. Be Wise, Be Smart and Be Careful! The Lord has given us One body, One life; don't abuse it.
2007-02-02 14:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by pattycakes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you enjoy everything that gay-sex offers but haven't emotionally connected to the men you're sleeping with - then more than likely you haven't found the right man yet.
The sad truth is you may never find the right man.
But the sadder truth is you may never find the right woman...
Love and sex are messed up - so stop trying to define what you are, and simply enjoy it...
2007-02-02 12:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey man anal sex is liked by straight guys. I have my girlfriend use a strap-on dildo.
2007-02-05 21:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by markleo1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be helpful if you talked to a gay friendly counselor. If you have feelings of sexual attraction for a man then you are definitely not straight. If you still have feelings of sexual attraction for both, then you are bi. good luck
2007-02-02 12:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually i am sorry to say that you are nothing...for now. Hopefully time will do something for you...it will make you a live. In fact you are confused and confusing others. Snap on! man...
2007-02-02 13:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem gay to me but its ok you are who you are. You most likely havent found the right guy like i haven't yet just hang in there it will be ok.
2007-02-02 13:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by confused boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say ur bi. if u like givin head, and sometimes bendin over, but dont feel no attraction to guys other than their dick, ur bi.
2007-02-02 15:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by forktail_devil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably bi, leaning gay
2007-02-02 12:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋