Say if i am attracted to women and even from a young age always been attracted to women and knowing im not gay is it possible to all of a sudden become gay?
This has been playing on my mind, ive expiermented with my friend we touched each other but i didnt feel anything and dismissed it and carried on becoming what i think is close enough to a womanizer, but im coming off anti depressents and my minds very vulnerable and i keep thinking i am gay, or becoming gay, but i know im not
my question is, if i dont want to be gay and know that i am attracted to women can my mind convince me other wise or is it just a phobia?
2007-02-02 11:49:15 · 12 answers · asked by wannabeomg 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No. If you are already straight, you cannot become gay. The fact that you are attracted to women and not men should tell you that. People are born with their sexual orientations. It just takes awhile for them to realize what sex they are attracted to.
2007-02-02 12:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Hmmm... 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to say. It's hard to get a good, psychological, scientific study done on homosexuality because of the political correctness issues surrounding it. Therefore, it's hard to determine if homosexuality is a genetic thing, or a psychological thing. If it's a psychological thing, then it COULD be possible, although unlikely, that a person would just become or decide to become "straight". Unless of course, the person was never really homosexual in the first place and was instead just a little sexually confused. ie. trying to find themselves by experimenting. If it's genetic, it would be all but impossible to truly become straight.
2016-05-24 06:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mind is a powerful thing. Studies have shown that we have the power to even slow our heartbeat and experience many excruciatingly painful experiences without the slightest bit of feeling, as long as we think about it and concentrate on it enough. Your mind can do anything. You have the power to make yourself sick if you think about it enough, and therefore you can probably make yourself attracted to your same sex if you really, really want to.
I believe all of these things are up to change. We are products only of how we are raised, and nothing more. We grow up the way we do because of the inherent, yet inadvertent, mind control of our society's teachings. Americans consider it to be disgusting to think of having a sexual relationship with their cousin, but many other cultures taught otherwise, and therefore that is simply life to them. With enough time and the proper technique, we could convert the entire population to homosexuality. Humans can do anything they want to, as long as they want to do it badly enough.
2007-02-02 11:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Ghost 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The thing is, you know if you're gay or not. You can have sex with only men all of your life and still be straight. It's not about actions. Is a celibate person gay or straight? Think about that.
Just relax and quit stressing yourself out.
2007-02-02 12:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by eschampion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too easy to say you're born gay.
Just as it is equally too easy to say you choose to be gay.
No one really knows - but people strive to explain it or to justify it as if it is something that needs explaining or justification.
I was neither born gay nor made the decision myself.
If you know you like women and know you are not gay then, surprise surprise - you like women and you are not gay.
Stop worrying about something (that really isn't anything to worry about) and move on...
Only you can do that,
2007-02-02 12:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality, except in the case of rape is consensual and made by choice. Those people who say they were "born" gay are just rationilizing bad behavior because it is much easier than taking responsibility for ones own actions..just blame someone else. It certainly is possible to become gay, in fact, I know of zero gay babies.
We are all a product of our own actions.
2007-02-02 13:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think you can become gay like that but maybe if you try with a man and you like it better than with women then maybe...i dont know if you can become gay or not...in american films they say you can be whatever you want, so maybe yes
2007-02-02 11:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by whoknows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a choice , only people who want to be are gay , the rest of us know why God made the opposite sex ,and if you feel somethings wrong then don't do it
2007-02-02 11:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No you cant "become" gay. Your born with it, although if u feel like you are, maybe your just now realizing that you are maybe? Or maybe your just paranoid that you might be gay.
2007-02-02 11:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by BlondBoy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
when you love to touch a girl you are not gay
bear in mind that when you touch by any genders you will still get hot
2007-02-02 11:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋