I lied to my bff, her boy frend called and said something bad about me, she hates me what should i do??

Question

PLZ HELP i known her for 15 years i can't let it end!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i cant call her and she won't be my frend

Answer 1

Tell her that you have been best friends for 15 years and you would like to have the chance to have her to at least listen to you. Tell her the honest truth and apologize face to face and ask for her forgiveness. From then on, it is up to her to forgive. You can't make her forgive you. You have to understand if she doesn't. If the roles were reversed, you may feel the same as she does. Let her have the chance to vent how she feels about what you did. Don't become defensive when she does. You deserve to hear how she feels. I am sure she doesn't hate you. She may be very dissapointed in you that you lied. She trusted you and you broke the trust. It is hard to trust someone when you break the trust. You know that. Apologize.

Answer 2

Whatever you do, its better to do it face to face than on the phone or messenger or something. When you see her tell her you need to talk to her, stop her no matter what and make her listen. Tell her exactly what happened and explain to her that it wasn't your fault, that its not fair that shes mad at you, she should be mad at the bf who said those bad things. Tell her shes your best friend of 15 years! How can she throw that away? Arent you more important than some stupid bf?

Answer 3

Leave her butt.If she believes her boyfriend about what he said and wants to be harsh to you about it,she's not such a good friend.

Answer 4

appologize for lying!
come clean or the friendship is OVER!

Answer 5

tell her that you cant loose her and that you love her and youre sorry that you LIED .