i just started dating a guy 2 days ago. i DO like him but i dont feel like being around him all the time. like right now, i feel stressed out just thinking about him. is this normal after 2 days?
i should also point out that ive been friends with him for almost 2 years and ive liked him on and off over the time period. im just wondering if anyone else has experianced this.
2007-02-02 11:07:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
people should always have some time to themselves
2007-02-02 11:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when close friends decide to become more, they dont know exactly how to show the change in the relationship. Besides the obvious kissing and hand holding that is. This sometimes causes them to think they need to spend MORE time together than before and since you're already close, spending that extra time can end up being spending every second together. Just take your time and your space. Dont break it off just yet because you seem to still have romantic feelings for him... give it a fair chance. It may just take a while for both of you to make a smooth transfer from friends to couple...
Best of Luck... hope it all works out for the best.
Oh! and one more thing: a lot of these people are telling you that if you feel like you need space than you must not like him... that's NOT true... everyone falls in and out of love differently... just listen to what your heart is saying... it always has the best advice! ;)
2007-02-02 11:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No thats not normal. When your dating your supposed to want to be with that person. When my guy and I got together we lived on the same street. then I moved about 30 minutes away and it just killed me. I always wanted to talk to him on the phone, play on the computer together and I always bugged my mom to take me to his house. Now a few years later Im turning 19, we live together and things changed. I want him even more. we're engaged and Im so used to being around him I cant even sleep if he's not there with me. you shouldnt feel this way, especially so soon. either you two are ment to be friends or your just a person that needs your space. and theres nothing wrong with that. I hope everything turns out well for you and your boyfriend. Good luck!
2007-02-02 11:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just not the boyfriend you thought he would be? Or maybe because you've been friends for so long it's weird dating him.. That happened to me once. I was friends with this guy for a long time then we started dating and it was weird. Almost like I was dating my brother or something. I felt bad, but I talked to him about it and he felt the same way and we were able to break up an still salvage the friendship.
2007-02-02 11:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well usually when you first start dating you people want to be around each other constantly but everyone's different.
2007-02-02 11:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by J♥R♥R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now you know the meaning behind the old saying, "Familiarity breeds contempt." Enjoy your space.
2007-02-02 11:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't the right one. He served his purpose. Stay pals with him but leave it at that. Wait till you meet someone who excites you day after day
2007-02-02 11:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is normal. We all need time alone
2007-02-02 11:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's not going to work.
2007-02-02 11:11:30 · answer #9 · answered by Seven Costanza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im nto sure hun but maybe you reconsider going out with him
2007-02-02 11:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋