i have alot of friends. but my closest friends are Lacey, Marie, and Kaylan. they always go over to each others houses and go to the movies together but never invite me. but at school were really good friends and do everything together. i've tried hinting that it bothers me when they leave me out of stuff..but they just keep on doing it..what should i do?
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2007-02-02 10:36:11 · 14 answers · asked by xoxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why don't you do the inviting? Invite them out to the movies one time and see what happens. If it doesn't work out, then they're not your true friends.
2007-02-02 10:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any way you can invite the three of them over....and initiate the fun?
It is obvious that the HINTING thing is NOT working so you might want to come out and directly ask them if there is a problem.
It is probably NOTHING but if it is, you deserve to know. If they are your best friends, even if they dont want to tell you, they will say something. You can gauge your reply by what they do or dont say
2007-02-02 18:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents if you can have a party at the house, or find another place and invite 20 or 30 people. Have good music, dance, have fun! Afterwards say that you're having another party in 6 months. They probably won't leave you out anymore.
2007-02-02 18:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try inviting them to your house or the movies.
2007-02-02 18:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda had that problem too. but with my cousins. yea, i think that you should invite them to places that you all might enjoy. then they might ask you to hang with them more often once you keep inviting them. or you could write them a letter. that's wat i do wen my friends and i have issues. in the letter just explain ur feeling or if u don't want to explain ur feelings tell them that u want to invite them over at ur place or go to the movies sometimes. good luck!
2007-02-02 18:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anon2250 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite them to the movies with you.
2007-02-02 18:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Rover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, talk to them.. don't just give them hints.. confront them..
tell them how u feel about them leaving u out.. there must be an explanation.. and if they're ur real friends they tell you the truth.. and understand.. and this might give u an oppurtunity to hang out with other people for a while.. see its not a bad thing.. and again.. talk to them.
2007-02-02 19:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by moose_uncanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be blunt and ask them.Maybe there is something they are bothered about when u come.Not saying there is.Just giving u some reasons.The only way u will find out is to ask what's up.Good luck
2007-02-02 18:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell them how u feel. i no u may not want 2 but it will make u feel SO much better once u let ur feelings out. my friends used 2 leave me out 2 and they didn't even no they were doing it. i just told them that i loved being their friends but i felt left out a lot. just tell them how u feel.
2007-02-03 01:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't pay attention to them you are better off getting new friends. I have people that used to be my friends but they did that too There not friends
2007-02-02 18:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋