so my husband start acuse me that im cheating on him with someone, which im not, 100% not cheating on him....when we still dating before we got marry he wasnt like this, but after we got marry he start acuse me of cheating on him. Why is he acuse me of being cheating?
2007-02-02 10:18:59 · 15 answers · asked by happier06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he's probably accusing you because he's feeling guilty of something he's most likely doing...Thats what cheaters do sometimes, they accuse you because they are the ones that are being the cheaters themselves. be careful you are probably being played.
2007-02-02 10:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by ღCCღ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be something as simple as a different meaning of 'cheating'. If you are going out for a night on the town without him or meeting with other guys in what you feel to be innocent situations he may look at them in a much different way. Particularly if you aren't being open about it. (of course he could be just extremely jealous and there is some truth to the guilty being the first to make accusations.)
2007-02-02 10:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by dano 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wake up! He is either very insecure, or HE is the one doing the cheating and is trying to shift his feelings of guilt to you. He could be the one doing the cheating, and by shifting the guilt to you and making everyone think you are cheating on him, that gives him an excuse to leave you and go be with the one that he is cheating on you with. For example, he could justify it by saying: "Well, she cheated on me so I am going to leave her." Then he leaves (without looking like a jerk or the cheating spouse) you to go be with the person he is cheating with. Or, if he accuses you of cheating, in his mind, maybe that gives him an excuse to cheat on you without leaving. In any case, it sounds like the lines of communication have broken down and that there is not a whole lot of trust in your marriage. I wish you the best.
2007-02-02 10:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because hes the one cheating, when men cheat they start thinking all kinds of stuff, for example the women hes cheating with he could think if shes cheating with me then maybe my wife could cheat too, he does his dirt and hes taking it out on you. thats the point
2007-02-02 10:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by chicamex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a good chance that he is cheating on you. People who cheat will do this to deflect the guilt they feel or to justify there own cheating. Twisted isn't it?. Has he cut you off sexually as well? That's another sign.
2007-02-02 10:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
for either 2 things, either he doesn't want to be with you anymore and he is looking for an excuse to divorce you or he cheated on you and he wants to turn off the table on you so since he cheated and you found out he will say, " oh it's your fault since you cheated you made me cheated too. "
2007-02-02 10:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Da 1 N only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be the one doing it and twisting it around on you out of guilt. Insecurity will do cause accusations too as well as trust issues. If your sex life is pretty much non existant that causes problems too. If he is the one that doesn't want to have sex then you should be suspicious of him.
2007-02-02 10:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is insecure or maybe doesnt like the way you dress or the way you are around other guys or you did something to make him feel that way or maybe he is cheating and trying to get you to admit to it so that he can feel less guilty ..there are any number of reasons.
2007-02-02 13:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the one who said he is probably guilty of it. Usually, people who don't trust can't be trusted. Also, if he trusted you before and now he doesn't, something has definitely changed. Again, it's not a good sign.
2007-02-02 10:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by goblue_1967 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually, being guilty makes you lash out unfairly at others. If he won't shut up about it and trust you, chances are it's because he's getting some on the side and feeling guilty.
2007-02-02 10:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by shojo 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋