im native american but i am not attracted to native american guys, i love love love latano,east indian,jamacan,arab guys, is it wrong?? i feel so guilty? and what do you prefer?
oh and im 17 and my bf is latino, but ive always been attracted to them
2007-02-02 10:09:23 · 14 answers · asked by LUYU 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i fee llike im racist agenst my own people
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2007-02-02 10:10:00 · update #1
Luyu is a beautiful name. Every person is unique and has their own goals aspirations and preferences and one of those extends to who you find attractive. As long as you can appreciate and be friends with native American Guys and are not acting out of insecurity or low self esteem, then you are doing OK. We worry because there seems to be a pattern where overweight white girls go with black men. This is a form of low self esteem and prejudice as the white girl is saying that since she is bad and no good, she is only good enough for black men. This demeans the black man and he does not deserve that. He does deserve the feelings he gets for taking advantage of the situation. So, if you let the guys demean, yell, boss, or otherwise abuse you, then you have a problem. If you are sure and confident in yourself, and not abused, and in the relationship only based upon personal preference, then Go for it girl and we back you up in you choice.
2007-02-02 10:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong at all. everyone has their style and taste. Im white (polish, native american, italianetc) but i perfer latino and blacks over white guys. I do think SOME white guys are cute but i can never really picture myself with one. My boyfriend is puerto rican. haha my mom says that when i was little like 3 years old i would flirt with my brothers friends that were latino/hispanic or black but never his white friends. its normal dont worry about it ive "i dont think i could ever date a woman of the same race as me, im just not attracted to them" ive herd it from almost every race.
2007-02-02 12:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you arent attracted to someone of your own race doesnt mean your racist honey. Everyone has a certain type of person they are attracted to - right now you are attracted to one type in a couple years it could change (not just talking about race but the kinda person they are). Dont fret- its not wrong. Take Care Honey.
2007-02-02 10:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not. Each person has a different taste, and just because you belong to a particular ethnia, it does not mean you have to strictly fancy people who are the same as you. Besides, the fact that you find people who are not the same ethnia as you attractive can mean you are a broad-minded person who is not xenophobic, and that´s good.
It is normal that you like people who look different or come from a different place from yours.
2007-02-03 07:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by mechi_shamrock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are from a certain background doesn't mean you have to be attracted to others from that background. In fact, i think it's perfectly normal to like things that are different from what you are normally surrounded by. Because it adds that feeling of something different/exciting/exotic. Sometimes it's the different features, and other times it's the foreign accents that just make you want to melt. Believe me I know exactly what you are talking about.
2007-02-02 10:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just becuase they aren't your type doesn't mean you are being racist. Racist is when you say bad things or criticize against a group of people.
2007-02-02 12:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel racist?
They're people, you shouldn't feel guilty.
Hell, I'm mixed.
It's not about the race, it's about the person.
bi-racial relationships are NOT wrong.
2007-02-02 11:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by gunshot_monkey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you have a favorite 'flavor'...a friend of mine is Filipino and her first pick is dark haired white guys. There are plenty of girls like ya. ; )
2007-02-02 11:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, they just aren't your type. there's nothing wrong with that. personally, i'm hawaiian but am attracted to white guys.
2007-02-02 16:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by rootsyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not really racist against your own people you. its just what you like i mean take this for example: there are black guys that like white girls or other races but not black girls ... white guys like spanish girls ... black girls... asian .... and other races ... it happens everyday and its all around us. believe me its not racist just look at people all around you its always happening ... people liking other races other than their own.
but its what you like thats what matters
2007-02-02 12:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by statefrogy_05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋