so am bisexual...and am only 14 yrs old...people might think is wrong since am so young to be making these types of choices but all these boys get me tired and i needed someone else other than boys so i decided to go with the girls and usually i would choose girls over boys...is that bad??
2007-02-02 09:56:49 · 31 answers · asked by babi_bori2007 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no not at all.
2007-02-02 09:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by disturbed 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If that's your only reason for doing so then yes. Both boys and girls can treat you bad you're not going to find that one is necessarily going to treat you any better than the other. Are you truly attracted to girls, or are you just doing it because of the way that boys treat you. People think that being bisexual is bad because it's easier to see where they convieniently go back and forth between sexes; whatever they feel like diong at the time, whoever treats them better, etc. as opposed to their seriously trying to stay in a committed relationship with one person. A lot of the time that other person doesn't even realize that the person they're dealing with is bisexual, and they're thinking that they're with someone who is straight/gay, and they're not. Women tend to be more open about it, so chances are it tends to be a relationship where one person is, and the other isn't; men are notorious for either keeping their interest in other men a secret, or perhaps they are truly only interested in men and the whole relationship is a sham, women can be a bit more open about it, since men are indifferent about a woman's sexuality to begin with, but there are serious issues when a woman wants to leave the man for another woman, which is something most men can't fathom when that actually happens to them.
It sounds as though you just want to try it out with girls for a while, if you would usually choose girls over boys anyway then perhaps it's just girls that you're really interested in, for whatever reason, boys just because that's what society accepts.
2007-02-02 10:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your only 14 you shouldn't even be thinking like that. Enjoy your childhood. It's not bad at all to be bi or gay though. I'm bi but also 22 and old enough to know what I want.
2007-02-02 12:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by tina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...you might be going through a phase right now though, but if you still have the same feeling a few years from now you will know for sure. There is nothing wrong with it though, so don't let anyone tell you that.
2007-02-02 10:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so. Sometimes only another woman can understand the needs of a woman and usually has more understanding and compassion than a man.
2007-02-02 11:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tori M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
isupport.
one of my good friends is bi
and hes really great
and some people dont accept him but they get over it because hes a really great person.
in time people will begin to accept you for who you are it just might be a little rough in the beginging
2007-02-02 12:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by denae 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first was with a girl when we were both 14. We both prefer men now, MANY years later. There are no absolutes, that's the only thing you can count on.
2007-02-02 10:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That is a little young for the choices you are making, but does it really matter ? Would that stop you ?? you are doing anything you really want..... so, just do it..
2007-02-02 10:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes - Besides the fact that you're way too young.... Lying with another woman is detestable to God. He created you as His precious daughter and he designed you to be joined in marriage with one man for life. Anything sexual outside of that marriage covenant is destructive to your soul. You will only find pain if you choose to continue on this path. I started down the gay path, and I suffered there for 8 years. Please, respect your body and protect your heart. You are so young, don't start this destructive life, especially not this early.
2007-02-02 10:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
no loads of people can decide how they want 2 b early on life just some people find it weird
2007-02-02 10:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not bad but I think your too young to engage yourself in such things....
2007-02-06 09:50:38 · answer #11 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋