he has 3 classes with her( but isnt her best friend like me) and I only see him in the hall and the only time i can talk to him is on the phone but he's been grounded for already like two weeks remeber he's my BEST FRIEND and I LOVE HIM ( i would do anything for him ) and he ONLY LIKES this girl. ( i love him so much i cry for him every day and he doesn't know that so please help.
2007-02-02 09:54:29 · 15 answers · asked by :)! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we know every thing about each other and to those ppl who say this is stupit and stuff dont answer gosh and maybe you dont have a friend as close as him so dont know dont answer i just posted this 1 minute ago OKAY !!!
2007-02-02 10:10:08 · update #1
Umm.. TO Alex s shut the f**** up u dont know s*** OKAY!! and thank you to others who help or about to comment that actualy helps and dont judge me in a mean way. and to LiSa sorry but i dont live in Wisconsin I live in summerfield, Florida Lake Weir Middle school.
2007-02-02 10:16:21 · update #2
im sorry to those who read this and think its over dramitc i didn't plan on making it seem like this.
2007-02-03 01:12:34 · update #3
dear you are infatuated not in love
concentrate on your studies to keep your mind off the situation. Let it go where it goes - the teenage years are volatile enough without putting your energies into this kind of thing.
2007-02-02 10:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he knows you romatically like him and still likes someone else, you're merely ruining your friendship and honestly the crazy way you sound, you may have already done so. He does not like you and that's okay, there are other people to meet in your lifetime.
If you were best friends like you say, he would MAKE time for you.
Is he avoiding you because he knows you like him and he doesn't feel the same? Probably. I'd keep myself busy and refrain from being around him if I liked someone that much, but he didn't like me . . .it's wouldn't be healthy if I didn't.
2007-02-02 09:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you a quote from Jerry Springer " The heart has a mind of it own. So exercise caution since it can be dangerous to your health. " I understand where you are coming from. I had been there before . Fell so hard with my guy friend but it just didn't work out. I had to sacrifice our friendship since I could no longer bear the pain of loving him and not being reciprocated. Let him be and just be a friend. Eventually he will come around.
2007-02-02 10:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what a dilemma, if you tell him how you feel, you may go forward or you may ruin your friendship, on the other hand being his best friend and nothing more is torture for you. I would ask him on a date, your treat. Go somewhere nice and quite and tell him how you feel. Tell him your friendship has peaked and your wanting a relationship with him. If he isn't up to it tell him you need to wean yourself from him, not for him but for your sake mentally. Or your can choose to be quite and live in misery. In life if you want it you need to go after it. One reason he is looking for a girlfriend is because he doesn't know your available.
2007-02-02 10:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by lego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this happend to me (i can so rlate to anything) ok back to your prblem ok try to seduce him reject him if he tries to talk to u say go talk to your other friend the 1 u like this way your bothering his ego hes going to be like she has to be mines but always reject him flurt with him play around with him F-L-I-R-T ANY THING U DO DONT SAY U LIKE HIM (even if he knows) act like u dont like him any more flirt with other guys no to much find out what he likes make up conversayion u know anything to get him and also pary to god to help u :) but beleive use all the arms a woman has to get him he won't escape(if u don't let him) so yeah but don't seem desperate especially dont sleep with him like that fool said he'll think of u as trash he'll say i used and abused her play hard to get even if your dieing to be with him k ? hope i helped
2007-02-02 10:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him "look i like you...like i really like you so i dont want to ruin our friendship but come on get a clue i am crazy about you" some girls was in the same situation and came up to me and we are still going out today...actually were engaged
2007-02-02 09:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by munson2015 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in taking a step foward, because if you don't, you never know what you're missing! Talk to him.
2007-02-02 10:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that u want to be with him, if that does not work throw yourself at him. That usually works with most guys, it would with me anyway. LOL
2007-02-02 09:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
love is a big word if you don't understand it just slow down before you get hurt i don't fink its love more like a crush please be carefully x
2007-02-02 10:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by LAWRENCE Plamchops 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UMM.. DO YOU LIVE IN WISCONSIN???
SERIOUSLY IF YOU DO SEND ME A MESSAGE CUZ I THINK I KNOW YOU!
2007-02-02 10:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by LiSa-- 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋