Hey I would like to get your feedback about something I've been noticing latety... I hope someone has gone throu same thing so maybe can help me...
I have noticed I've been having like zero patience to deal with others... I dont think i feel affected about anything else but if someone talkes to me and I feel he/she start asking me question after question I just really loose my patience and get in a weird mood :-S ... my mom said that to me the other day like she was asking me something and then like why and why and why and she noticed i started getting annoying... and I think it just hitted me now cause even with my bf he was asking me many things... nth bad mostly like what ull do today? how r u? and i really got annoying also.. Why you think i might be loosing my patience?
2007-02-02 09:33:51 · 3 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sounds like you are a young teen. It is normal, most of the time. Try this: When you feel your patience going toward "Zero", tell the person in a calm way that you need a few moments...or the rest of the day to think about it. I need some space for a while." Then be sure you follow up and deal with it again. Patience grows with each return.
All the best!
Jim
2007-02-02 09:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by jimmaresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are just times where we simply do not want to have to answer small talk questions. And the reason we keep being asked questions is that we did not supply enough information with the first question eg How was your day? Okay, What did you do? The usual.
When people care about us and how we are etc., they want to know about us so if there is any problems they are there to help. And yes this can cause annoyance as it feels like you are under cross examination and the annoyance is due to them not recognising you have answered their questions.
This all becomes circular with you becoming annoyed. So how to change this situation is easy. Firstly recognise it is out of love and interest that your Mum and boyfriend ask the questions. Secondly think about your answers and give them the extra information without them having to drag it out of you with questions. Eg How was your day? It was good, I did this'n'that and Mary blah blah, just the usual. Then turn it around and ask them about their day, this automatically takes the focus off of you.
As we grow and develop we do go through stages where we don't feel like a full on conversation and quite often nothing has made our day that much different to any other so we give the simple straight forward answer.
Self experience and my daughters show too many questions will annoy us if we believe we have answered them in the first place.
2007-02-02 17:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by sag_kat2chat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has there been any changes in your diet or sleep patterns? Most people when lacking sleep become very easily aggitated.
It can also depend on your age. Various things (ie Medical) depending on your age can greatly affect your mood.
Try getting plenty of sleep, eating right, and of course exercising. (Beleive it or not exercise is GREAT for your mood).
2007-02-02 17:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by RedKnight_moi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋