2007-02-02 09:24:20 · 9 answers · asked by The Raging Monkey 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have held a personal grudge against someone for more than a decade. I just can't seem to let things go and I don't know why. I think the reason is that when I don't understand a situation and it hasn't been explained logically (or truthfully), I have difficulty resolving it and bringing closure to the matter. This is something that I struggle with and continue to work on. I don't advise holding grudges. If you can find it in your heart, forgive (if only for yourself), and let it go. Life is too short.
2007-02-02 09:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I would call it a grudge, but I am still upset with a long time friend of 17 years for not apologizing for something she did back in 1998.
2007-02-02 09:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by AriKnight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 15 Years my boyfriend calls me the queen of grudges
2007-02-02 09:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by kmdanie1279 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not call it a personal grudge, but I choose not to associate with certain persons who have fuked me over, you know live and learn. I am not all eaten up by it, life is too short.
2007-02-02 10:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a generally light-hearted person so it suprises me I can hold such long grudges. My longest has been about 2 years.
2007-02-02 09:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by Forest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long time! But then I learned that it was holding me back, So now I focus on positive things, instead of harboring bad feelings
2007-02-02 09:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by dancinintherain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years 2 days 16 hours and 23 minutes...and still counting.
2007-02-02 09:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by Trip S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. For about eight years. I've let it go a few years ago, but I'm still not talking to that *****
2007-02-02 09:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by LX V 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Til death do we part.
2007-02-02 09:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋