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My Ex girlfriend has came knocking on my parents door while I was at basketball practice and told my folks that she is 6 months pregnant and I am the father. What if my present GF hears about this? I was not real serious about her and it was just a Muh Dik thing. Now what do I do?

2007-02-02 09:23:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government Law & Ethics

can anyone help me

2007-02-02 09:25:45 · update #1

21 answers

Rationally and slowly tell your current GF, I would want to know right away if my BF had this kind of issue...and I would also make sure, that it really is yours, ask around. You say it was just a "Muh Dik thing." she probably felt the same way and didn't care if she messed around with other guys...and your parents did actually see her pregnant? its not one of those lies girls pull to get back with a guy, right?



I wish you the absolutely the best of luck, hope everything works out the way you want

2007-02-02 09:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by luvaly_girl 3 · 0 2

Do whatever steps necessary to find out if the child is yours. If the child is yours, then be responsible, and provide for the child. If it's your child, love it, and try to be civil with it's Mother. Always remember, this child didn't ask to be born, but here it comes. If you're the Father, man up, and do the right thing. You were man enough to have sex knowing that pregnancy was a possibility, now be prepared to face the responsibilty of your actions.

Having your current GF find out is the least of your problems. By all means, let her know, instead of her hearing about it later. Her finding out later could be more damaging.

Good luck to you.

2007-02-02 17:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by sub_moa_shooter 2 · 1 0

You are way to young to be having sex if you are worried about what the present girlfriend is going to say. This is not Middle school, this is life and you have just graduated to the big league of paying for the next 18 years. This is your child that will be coming into the world. Your son or daughter. How you choose to treat this child despite the relationship you have with the mother will be your choice.

2007-02-02 17:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

well you really need to talk to your present girlfriend about the situation and see how she feels then you need to at least be supportive of the ex once she has the baby if there are doubts you need to have a paternity test done to be sure it is yours before putting your name on the birth cert because once you do that you are it father until a court says otherwise which means you would have to pay child support on a child that wasnt yours if it is yours then well congrats you are a father and with that comes alot of resposibilities dont turn your back on the child due to the relationship you and the mother have good luck to you!!!

2007-02-02 17:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by BlessedMommyof3.. 5 · 0 0

First, if you are serious about your current girlfriend, you have to tell her about this. Second, get a paternity test when the child is born. Third, if this child is yours, step up to the plate and do the right thing. Help raise your baby, get a job, pay support and get shared custody. It will also help if you have your parents support, so talk to them.

2007-02-02 17:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by TD R 5 · 0 0

First thing you do is go on the Maury show. That way you can Chimp out on her real good. Tell the world how many bucks she be havin. And say "dat aint not MUH baby" over and over. Regardless of the out come you will do exactly what you people do any way. Just walk away and forget about her.

2007-02-02 17:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by warren_mallainy 3 · 3 1

For the next 18 years you will have big responsibility. Don't be a dead beat, give up basket ball practice and get a job...you are going to need it. It is not the end of the world. Just a big responsibility. This might teach you to keep it in your pants.

2007-02-02 17:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by iwrite1969 1 · 2 1

Step up!!!! Enough kids go without fathers in this world and if the kid is yours then you should want to help her take care of it. And if your present girlfriend can't handle the fact that you have slept with other people than that is her problem.

2007-02-02 17:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Just because she said the baby was yours doesn't make it so. Get a paternity test to be sure. If your current gf loves you she will understand and support you. If the baby is yours, You will have to grow up fast.

2007-02-02 17:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Try the site below for research on this legal matter, make sure to change the State/Location in which you reside. I wish you the best of luck.

2007-02-02 17:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by citronge69 4 · 0 0

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