2007-02-02 09:06:41 · 25 answers · asked by m 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yeah....but hey...whats the point???i mean if u get married and want to have kids...
2007-02-02 09:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well if he is gay, he won't want her sexually, otherwise he would be something other than gay!
The trouble is that in English, "love" is required to cover so many meanings and it is obvious it fails miserably. Of course a gay man can love a girl in many ways but your question suggests in a sexual manner. Equally a gay man could fall in love with another man but not want him sexually.
2007-02-02 09:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Raymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you bear in mind that there is a difference between being 'in' love and loving someone.
But yes it is possible. Sexuality is a very complicated thing, people are rarely 100% gay or 100% straight, but generally fall somewhere inbetween. He may find that loving her grows into a sexual attraction, or that he wants to be with her and still have sexual relationships with men.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_orientation
It is also very difficult to find a group of people to 'fit in' with if you do not identify as either 'gay' or 'straight' so many people unwittingly conform without allowing themselves to just feel emotions and sexual attractions as they appear.
2007-02-02 12:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kaelyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fall in love with someone then you want them in every way possible,this includes sexually. It is possible to love someone so deeply that it may feel like you're in love with them but if there's no sexual attraction then that's all it is. If this guy is in love with a woman then he is most def not gay,he is actually bi. Hope this helps.
2007-02-04 20:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by SHAKIRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but most gay men are bi-sexual, so maybe he will want her sexually. There are very few men that are not attracted to women at all. However it is true that a gay man can be friends with a woman, and not want a relationship with her.
2007-02-02 09:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by mellouckili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can fall in love with people that you might not be sexually attracted to - but that's what I would call a best friend.
If you think about it, your closest friends have everything you love about people - you just don't fancy them so this could maybe be the same thing?
2007-02-02 09:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's common for a gay male to fall for a female. Women are powerful beings.
2016-03-15 04:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my best friend Sherry with all my heart. Would do anything for her and would give my life for her. But I am not IN love with her. She is married and very happy and I am married and very happy. We just connect and love each other very much and are very protective of one another. She brings so much joy an happines into my life, we have never had a cross word. We have "Tab & Sherry's Day of Fun" about once every six months and spend the entiere day togther into the evening. Our husbands are good friends, our families know each other.
2007-02-02 09:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello! how can you fall in love with the opposite sex and not want to be intimate??
It eithert means that he really loves her as a friend but prefers it up the **** or that he's confused and does'nt know what he wants. In that case he would be Bi-sexual
2007-02-02 09:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I really don't know, but if a man falls in love with a girl and is gay then he might be gay or he might be Bi.
2007-02-02 09:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by Kyle B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its true . There are many gay men that fall in love with women ,form long lasting meaningfull and loving relationships. They father children and often live long happy lives but still remain Gay. I am one of em..
2007-02-02 13:24:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋